Early in adulthood I moved to a different US state and suddenly I wasn't too tall, I was showgirl height. My ability to state what I wanted was catnip to guys. Swan style transformation though I didn't change a bit.
Still didn't know I was autistic until I became sick from Burnout. I still don't know for certain... what's me and what's Mask?
But I think I know myself in a way that is rare among the population. I KNOW what I like.