@pathfinder It's part of the trauma, that we have to deal with - that we didn't know why we acted and reacted as we did. That, in some cases, we can't mend fences, or reconstruct bridges. That, to some people, we will always be weird, or seem aloof. We are recently realised #ActuallyAutisticElders, and have to forgive ourselves for what we didn't know. @EVDHmn@actuallyautistic