What the hell do people even do in strip clubs

Like from what I understand you’re not allowed to touch the workers because then it becomes prostitution. So like. A bunch of boys just get together and sit down to watch some girls dancing naked? And they just kinda grin at each other and say “hey isn’t it awesome when there’s boobs?”

You can’t jerk off so they just go to get boners with their buddies? You can do that at home. You can just watch porn with the fellas or have a circlejerk.

I’ve never understood why it’s seen as a straight masculine thing to go to a place where the only thing you can do is get horny with other men.

jwsmrz,

jork it (my peanits)

in all seriousness theres been queer strip club nights popping up in my city which sounds kinda fun if everyones being chill and respectful

Xx_Aru_xX,
@Xx_Aru_xX@hexbear.net avatar

Queer sexual exploitation wowee

EmoThugInMyPhase,

They exist for the same reason hooters exist. You do an already established activity (hooters: eat fast food, strip club: drinking alone), but then you add in cute girls who pretend to like you to make you feel less alone

Personally I’m looking forward for when they create sexualized basketball so I can have cute girls encourage me to shoot threes

HubertManne,
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go to one. its way better than porn. really helps to have a girl to come back to appreciates you being all reved up.

Awoo,

It’s a place where awful and socially maladjusted people go because they can’t get women that attractive to be pleasant to them in any other situation.

Maid cafes in Japan fulfill the same purpose but without alcohol. Some offer after-hours “specials” that include erotic performance. An evolution of historic Geisha service.

Hooters fulfills the same purpose again.

It’s the same motivation in every version, there’s just a different presentation in style and act. They want feminine attention and they are willing to part with money to get it, typically they have fucked up views of women because of the lack of feminine attention or because of the fact they’re awful human beings. Power, patriarchy, misogyny, all wrapped up into one.

ashinadash,
@ashinadash@hexbear.net avatar

/thread !!

Sons_of_Ferrix,

Look a naked boobies

ashinadash,
@ashinadash@hexbear.net avatar

Funny thread for the bear website, also really seems to have brought the @s out of the woodwork, typical awooga redditbrain stuff.

ultraviolet,
@ultraviolet@hexbear.net avatar

yeah Hexbear harbor a lot of misogyny that hasn’t been properly addressed

SnowySkyes,
@SnowySkyes@hexbear.net avatar

You’re not kidding. It’s usually fine, but there are some threads, like this one, that just straight up make me feel uncomfortable. It’s something that I wish would be addressed, but I have no idea where to start.

panned_cakes,
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alexandra kollontai did not foresee what if strip club but gay

Dolores,
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i think if you view it wholly as eroticism & trying to bust it seems disappointing, but it’s really just a bar where you get to see live performance. so all the appeals of a bar PLUS watching contortionists & dancers do their thing.

Lerios,
@Lerios@hexbear.net avatar

watching contortionists & dancers do their thing

if that were the appeal, they wouldn’t be almost entirely female - there is also a significant amount of misogyny and objectification going on

Dolores,
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i’m just explaining a point of view that will be less alien to the audience here, the whole reason strip clubs exist is patriarchal morality policing, there’s a ton to unpack about it but an important first thing to understand is that it’s art & performance. and i’m not the best equipped to actually do that unpacking, i’ve only read history from before strip clubs were an explicit category

driving_crooner,
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I love that in techno/funk parties in Brazil is pretty common to have performance, they are usually dancers of “vougueing”, but they’re also drag queens of just people with the most crazy costumes. There’s a DJ I really like, DJ K, who always bring his dancers that are just two guys with evil clown mask dancing funk in a style that is creepy, so it mix well with his style of funk.

take_five_seconds,
@take_five_seconds@hexbear.net avatar

www.youtube.com/watch?v=6OdZ_1En9a4

ok this goes hard as fuck

driving_crooner,
@driving_crooner@lemmy.eco.br avatar

youtu.be/fH--iNDMm5I

This one have one of the evil dancing clowns that always follows him around.

rootsbreadandmakka,

Strip clubs have been around for a long, long time. I assume in a time before the internet and being able to see naked women on demand, going to a strip club was a more novel activity.

It’s also a social activity. Why do people like going to the bar? I’ve always thought going to the bar was stupid, but plenty of people have fun doing that. A strip club is sorta like a bar with near-naked women dancing. I’ve met women who like going to the strip club, either with other women or with their guy friends.

SSJ2Marx,
@SSJ2Marx@hexbear.net avatar

me and the boys

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dessalines, (edited )

gettin horny with the fellas

https://lemmy.ml/pictrs/image/7bf22f7c-e4f9-4268-a665-2c8a6fc5bb5d.png

Lemmygradwontallowme,
@Lemmygradwontallowme@hexbear.net avatar

Only Petah’s goonin’ there…

Feinsteins_Ghost,
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im not saying this to be demeaning towards anyone who works in a strip joint, nor am i commenting on the reasons one would work there.

That said, some places are topless only. Some places are full nude. Some places, like outside of city limits where places like these are regulated, the sky is the limit. Some places are full alcohol service. Some places are dry. Some are BYO. I work in a smallish city, lots of my service calls are on a particular stretch of interstate between my smallish city and the next smaller city. There is a place I pass pretty regularly along the road there that has been there since i was 10 (im 45 now for reference) that is full nude. and they provide setups for your alcohol. They refer to the women who work there as ‘models’. There is no pricing of sorts. Everything is arranged between the customer and the ‘model’. The model takes you back to their private booth/stall/whateverthefuck and what you two agree to, and the price you agree to is between you, the model, and the four walls. Because it is in the sticks out in the county, it is not regulated by any city entity.

There are some places where sex workers strip at, and will pursue ‘side work’ if the customer meets whatver standards the sex worker has.

There are also some places where if you look at the women improperly, youll be bounced on the spot with a lump on the side of your head for your troubles.

I guess it all depends on business/business location/owner/workers.

SorosFootSoldier,
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Yeah that sounds super fucking shady and totally a front for human trafficking.

krolden,
@krolden@lemmy.ml avatar

Hey guys wanna go spend all our money and get boners together?

Infamousblt,
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Jokes on you me and the rest of the goon squad do that for free screm-cool

EllenKelly,
@EllenKelly@hexbear.net avatar

hey everyone, this nerds afraid of boners!

This reads homophobic imo

krolden,
@krolden@lemmy.ml avatar

Lol what

EmoThugInMyPhase,

Most guys who attend strip clubs are the ones who sit six feet apart from each other in any other scenario because they don’t want anyone thinking they’re gay. Same with guys who watch hours of porn, comparing dick sizes, etc. Feels like OP was just mocking these type of guys.

JoeByeThen,
@JoeByeThen@hexbear.net avatar

Sexy women are nice to you.

TheFinalCapitalist,
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You’ve made a point I have never before considered so props to you

JoeByeThen,
@JoeByeThen@hexbear.net avatar

dubois-finger-guns

krolden,
@krolden@lemmy.ml avatar

For money

JoeByeThen,
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