#Influence#Failures We trigger #Reactance when we leave the other person feeling (not thinking ;-), that our request is all about us and not their emotional need. If you want to avoid #Reactance take the time to listen to other people's needs. Really listen with the intent to understand. (Hint this is often an emotional response, better explaining your idea won't help)
When have you triggered reactance, by putting your own needs first? What did you do to recover?
