It came up in this webcomic I'm reading, and it made me wonder…
Do you have sexy pictures (or videos) of (at least one of) your partner(s) on your phone?
It's up to you to define "sexy". The comic implies at least partial nudity; I'd say, as a guideline, it should be more intimate than a normal portrait shot, arousing in nature. Something most ppl wouldn't want to show their boss or parents.
If you don't have a "partner" or don't use that term, then an ex or someone close to you.
@scy Yes, I do, but in my case, because I’m blind, it is not pictures. It is sexy audio messages instead. I also send them to people I feel close to and we have consent with one another. Sometimes also videos, but only if they have sound. So the answer is yes, but in a slightly different context than most. 😉
(Yes, the poll options are rather limited, sorry. I only get to provide four of them. Feel free to reply if nothing fits, or choose the thing(s) that match(es) best.)
No judgement here either. There are a ton of possible reasons why (and I can't cover them all), and just as much as we should normalize having nudes of people we love, we should normalize not having any. (Nudes, but also people we love.)
Again, if your particular reason(s) are not covered, feel free to reply :)
that face when you try to design your poll in a pretty inclusive way, covering asexuality, nonmonogamy, relationship anarchy, different kinds of attraction…
…and then forget about the goddamn singles.
ffs scy
to my defense, it's kinda early here and i didn't sleep well
I think I kinda fixed it, without resetting even. Still not ideal, but better than before.
Poll design is hard, and Mastodon limiting the number of choices to four isn't helping either.
Sorry if I made you sad.
Let me know if I forgot anything (or anyone) else.
(I'm now also iffy about whether the original post should come with one or more CWs. Not that there's any space left for them. Ughhhh this was supposed to be just a bit of fun and satisfy our collective curiosity…)
Be aware that it's been an ongoing story for over 20 years now. About 50% of the people who get sent a link to one of the comics end up spending several weeks catching up by reading everything from the beginning.
Early QC is a lot of deadpan indie jokes. The story gets a bit more serious and a bit more sci-fi and then basically ends up at "a bunch of interesting characters and people you became parasocial friends with over the years doing all kinds of things".
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