Well it's technically not the computer related podcasts that are the problem, it's the other podcasts that they do that's the problem. So OP isn't listening to them spread hate. Other people are on a different podcast.
I don't think computer industry related podcasts should be political or anything but I also understand that human beings are human beings and can't help but make comments or go off on tangents. So it's hard to separate out the two.
I wouldn't ever seek out podcasts for computer related stuff based on someone's gender or sexual identities, regardless how I feel because I don't personally feel it's important enough at the end of the day since I'm not there for their political commentary and just the technology that's identity agnostic.