HelloHotel

HelloHotel, 1 month ago

If you (the news) are going to use flowery language, at least imply its a crime!

• "Sexually coersed a minor"
• or "groomed a minor for sex"
• or "had a relationship where the power dynamics were so 1 sided that the child could not give consent"
• or mabe just say “raped a minor”

Its not that hard!

HelloHotel, 1 month ago

unless its thrown down a flight of stairs onto hard wood, Oopises! now you got a mess of mercury all over the floor! What a mess! you need asbestos mop! the only number one recommended mop 3 years in a row! /s

HelloHotel, 1 month ago

I always question why they make them look like tech, they could theme them any other way. I think a 3d light bulb one would look really cool!

HelloHotel, 1 month ago

confined to only a small reservoir or flowing into the coolant loop? the former is harder because you have to swirl the water without getting the rings stuck on or clogging the outlet valve.

HelloHotel, 1 month ago

I’m so sorry for your loss! no human should have to go through that! /s

HelloHotel, 1 month ago (edited 1 month ago)

Exactly, there is a silent rule tha men must look like this (edit: this is not as bad as the other site i found when googling it, thinking about get ting it cut, someone suggested it to me) to be “professional”. I hate everything about that look, I want my bangs to not be pushed up as to look like a hnock-off of steve jobs and/or the chad meme and/or genaric famous actor#173 and/or the “proper” men in 1960’s propaganda films.

Putting it into this style means not being authentic to be seen as “in the cool kids club” in the eyes of a hiring manager. Also, its cutting parts off, making it so getting the long flowy hair I want take longer.

HelloHotel, 1 month ago (edited 1 month ago)

I was given a website with some men’s hairstyles and… yeah… you can keep them! There is an invisible expectation that “all the cool kids chads wear their bangs up” this may be one of our society created invisible gender and/or male professionalism markers.

To wear somthing like that, being a “strong powerful man” makes me feel… domesticated. In the same way being a domesticated housewife must feel. (has it in the name)

EDIT: not strictly true

Im glad but also frustrated that (Edit: mainstrean) Feminism only cut off 1 head of a multi headed dragon before changing and abandoning class struggle. This beast attacks the understanding of all gender roles in the hopes the oppressed are also self oppressors.

HelloHotel, 1 month ago

Can you link me an example? Or is it the thing that looks like horse blinders for woman. Image

Also what exactly are you trying to say?

HelloHotel, 1 month ago (edited 1 month ago)

I couldnt be happier to be proven wrong! I based too much weght on my earlier experience of mainstream feminism (as limited and inacurate it may be). Historical feminism, I havent seen much media where the additudes and beliefs arent revised by modern mainstream feminists so I give the benifit of the dought.

The fact that I deeply relate to the struggles depicted in The Incel to Trans Pipeline and Inside Mari(0:50:51 talks about her university library, ive included a transcription, please read it). as well as the idea that there is a thing called a TURF, and if your trans, its in your best interest to not make that known to them.

Being a closeted trans woman, seeing mainstream feminism and asking “how are they going to treat me? Will they accept me? Will they believe that I still stink of patriarchy? (and in practice deny transition is even possable)” It brings a lot of anger that I know is unjust to apply to a label as broad and fuzzy as “Feminism”.

I know for trans media, the mainstream warps what is allowed to be presented, same for Communism, (see, any communist political party in amarica, also Mccarthyism) I relized it was probable that the same is true for Feminism. But now I have conformation that my old working theory that the movement was dead wasnt forked when it was userped was wrong.

In a sense, all this stuff, the trans community, the feminist community (for lack of a better word) and orthers, and their resources are burried under knowing where to go, what to type in an what links to visit. (search “trans” on youtube and all you will get is slop)

transcription (TODO: clean up spelling, 2nd proofread)> even in 2010, in Texas, my university library had a small but respectable LGBT section, and I began spending most of my time between classes there reading anything I could about gender non-conformity and trans issues. As I learned more and more, I hit a wall. The way trans people were described in these books, the words they used had this deeply solitified sense that their soul was female. as children they wore their moms high heals, they even said they were girls to their family. Even with the amount of disphoria I was going through, I didnt have any such certanty. It was complicated by the feeling that I wasnt really trans. That I was tricking myself into trying to ligitimizing somthing that was just a fetish. I loved womans bodies, I knew I desired them, and also wanted to live as one but couldnt amagine myself within one. There is somthing so pleasimg about one, there was somthing so pleasing about the thoght, somthing so indulgent that it felt preverse. As I read more and more, I took in 2nd wave feminist ideology and began to internalize it. What if I was just a socially dissaffected male who’s desire to control woman was distorted inwardly? What if I was apropriating woman’s bodies by wanting to become one?

TODO: Spelling, mobile doesnt have it.

HelloHotel, 1 month ago

Or ~/.local/share/${software_name_or_whatever}… Or ~/.${software_name_or_whatever}/

Oof

HelloHotel, 1 month ago

Which one is your favorate, mine is ~/freedroid/. 😝

HelloHotel, 1 month ago

Being the ‘correct one’ makes it easy to skip over… thx

HelloHotel, 1 month ago (edited 1 month ago)

One interesting thing, a fingerprint is (from what i can tell) re-obtained because the fingerprint data is internal use only. The doctors, The government, the military and the jailers dont share this data with eachother. With DNA, it sounds like the doctors are giving your DNA at birth to the government, the military, the jailers, the advertisers, and your insurance company. These parties dont just know your child’s perminant identity AND their risk of medical problems or their biologicaly created mential shortcomings, now they know yours, your famialy’s and a little bit about unconcenting strangers.

Its like if 23andMe almost exclusively used its data to hold power over you.

HelloHotel, 1 month ago

like teaching neurodivergent behavioral patterns as “signs of lying”

Dont know where that claim comes from, i searched and found some studies. I cant tell if this is contadictory or not.

Really Im asking: Where, why and how does this “signs of lying” narrative manifest?

HelloHotel, 2 months ago

This stops Windows 11 from blocking the installation and lets you get the app back onto your PC. We’re not sure if Microsoft has fixed this trick, but it’s worth a shot if you want to keep using your favorite apps.

That’s mildly distopian.

This prevents your car from shutting itself off when trying visit certain areas on the map. We’re not sure if car manufacturers have fixed this trick, but it’s worth a shot if you want to keep going to your favorite places.

And only a little tiny bit adversarial.

HelloHotel, 2 months ago

Its a good practice to make the auto generated code a part of the .gitignore list. Any language installable on peoples machines can be used to build these makefiles. Ya know a language is on that list? Makefile!

HelloHotel, 2 months ago

Actually its phone OEM googled AOSP linux or as ive started calling it OEM+Google+AOSP/Linux /s

Googled android or “Google/AOSP” is probably correct

HelloHotel, 2 months ago

Is that actually their app? It looks like a poorly designed PWA.

HelloHotel, 2 months ago

Mabe poking it to be racist within the first 15 minutes of messing with it.

HelloHotel, 2 months ago (edited 2 months ago)

It seems you are criticizing to the book the author quotes, not the article itself. "

Two things need to be said after reading The Anxious Generation. First, this book is going to sell a lot of copies, because Jonathan Haidt is telling a scary story about children’s development that many parents are primed to believe. Second, the book’s repeated suggestion that digital technologies are rewiring our children’s brains and causing an epidemic of mental illness is not supported by science. Worse, the bold proposal that social media is to blame might distract us from effectively responding to the real causes of the current mental-health crisis in young people

" - The posted article about 3 ish parographs in.

If I’m mistaken, let me know.

HelloHotel, 2 months ago (edited 2 months ago)

Its a CPU bug only the kernel can fix 🤒. The kernel is responsible for its running hardware.

Am I dumb? that’s the spectere and meltdown bug. xz-utils malware is a whole other thing, lol.

HelloHotel, 2 months ago

Clearly not, lol. Every vulnerability is spectere aparently. (To be fair, the other CVE this week is hardware based)

HelloHotel, 2 months ago (edited 2 months ago)

we are ruled by people of the dark triad

Money allows you to disconnect from painful experiences. Allows you to tailor your world to be whatever you want. Whatever you cant do, you use your wealth to block or drown out of your memory. Its self delusion.

I’ve always wondered why they never see that not doing a thing would be better for them in the medium to long term.

HelloHotel, 2 months ago

I only really know that its the situation/mindset of self delusion (minus the narcissism) I have spent years trying to leave (my earliest comments appear grisly to me when looking back) and I see it in their eyes too.

HelloHotel, 2 months ago

First off, happy easter! ❤️

Absolutely, However I can only fully move on when I physically move out. But because America is America and I have a depressed roomate that drags me down sometimes.