@fEmber@transfem.social

fEmber

@fEmber@transfem.social

Ember (she/her) - demigirl software developer.
Admin of transfem.social and shonk.social.

Hello! I'm Ember - a transfem foxgirl programmer. My interests are LGBT+ / queer life, programming, retrocomputing, anime, PC gaming, and TTRPGs. I'm also very interested in the future of federated social media and follow that topic closely. Feel free to reach out if you'd like to chat about any of these - this girl is a nerd and proud of it! I also welcome DMs from anyone questioning their gender or identity. I've been there, I know how hard it can be.

Follows are locked (meaning that they require manual approval), but feel free to send a request! I only ask that you have a bio and/or a few public posts for a basic vibe check.

#NoArchive #NoIndex #NoSearch #NoBridge #NoBot

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fEmber, to trans

🏳️‍⚧️ Safety tip for Transfem.Social members: 🏳️‍⚧️

Hi friends! Ember here with a small suggestion / reminder for online safety. This is not an instance rule, to be clear, just something that I strongly recommend for online personal safety.

In short - never share your personal information online!
We're a friendly, close-knit community here, but that doesn't make it safe to post personal details. Bad-faith actors sometimes sneak into communities like ours, looking for vulnerable people to stalk and harass. Fedi, in particular, has a problem of hateful people operating "scrapers" that use bots to scan the federated timeline and capture any information on marginalized people. This gets passed on to dangerous groups like KiwiFarms and used for targeted harassment.

Fortunately, you can resist this by limiting what types of personal information you share online. In particular, here are some things that you should never reveal:

  • Your legal name(s)
  • Your birth date
  • Your address (even city of residence)
  • Photos of your house (especially the exterior)
  • Your phone number
  • Where you work

There's also some which are a bit less critical, but I still strongly recommend against sharing. If you want to publish one of these, then please take the time to complete a calculated risk assessment!

  • Selfies / other photos showing your face
  • Your exact age (and be careful with ranges)
  • Where you went to school / college
  • Details of businesses / organizations you visit
  • Uncommon medical conditions (doctors get hacked a lot)

This may seem like a lot, but I promise you - it's a small price to pay for online safety! There are horrible people out there, and they'd like nothing more than to make us suffer. Let's make sure that doesn't happen!

--
With love from Ember,
Transfem.Social Community Moderator
​:heart_pride:​ ​:heart_trans:​

fEmber, to random

⚠️ Official Statement ⚠️
I (fEmber) am nyot cute and nyot a good girl. Any claims of such are factually incorrect. ​:neofox_uwu:​

fEmber,

@Sparky Is also true of Hazel! Ember is nyot cute, and Hazel is nyot cute too!

fEmber,

@Sparky Sparky is cyuter!

fEmber,

@Sparky no no nyo! ​:neofox_angry:​ Sparky is cute and smart, Ember is the dyumb and uggo one.

fEmber,

@Sparky nyahh its not that hard, u give me too much credit! ​:neofox_blush:​ Am sure u could do it to!

(Don't post a face reveal, there's creepy transphobes who will use it to doxx & harass you. Please stay safe! /srs)

fEmber,

@Sparky

  1. Nyo! And ur cyuter!
  2. Love you too (platonically) ​:neofox_heart:​
fEmber,

@Sparky of course! take care, cutie ​:neofox_heart:​

fEmber,

@Sparky no, absolutely nyot! ​:neofox_angry:​

fEmber, to random

I turned off Cat Mode for this account since Misskey doesn't have an option for only ears. I don't like how my serious posts about sensitive topics were getting nyan-ified. It's kinda the wrong vibe ​:neofox_laugh_sweat:​

fEmber, to trans

Please please please add a CW to any news stories about transphobia or other anti-trans bigotry. This is doubly important if it involves violence or politics. Remember, many trans people gather here to escape from transphobia / transmisia in our daily lives. Please respect our mental health by using the CW feature! ​:neofox_pleading:​

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