@enobacon And also, the idea that in prioritizing safety you have made safety worse is a MASSIVE cognitive dissonance that makes people hella uncomfortable on its own, so don't go there unless you have solutions to offer or people will lean HARD into the alternative way of resolving their dissonance, which is to prove to themselves that you're the one who's wrong and they are doing it the right way. https://www.simplypsychology.org/cognitive-dissonance.html