@simon Yes, this is what I sense too! I even felt it myself when someone initiated a request to me, even though it's a completely irrational response on my part and I squelched it quickly. Maybe a sense (irrational, but where's it come from?) that the person initiating the Calendly (or similar tool) is the one whose time is more protected and important and the other person should adjust to them? "Talk to my secretary" sort of thing?