@CharlotteEowyn I mean, you're a friend, Charlotte. You're always welcome to reach out!
But yeah, sexuality is fuzzy and weird. Like, could I claim somewhere on the bi spectrum? Technically, maybe? I'm attracted to femme-of-center presentations and gender, with some asterisks for genderfuckery of certain types. But it feels sapphic-expansive to me, so Sapphic is what I go with.
I like to look at these identity labels as a sort of shorthand, so we don't have to explain too much. They're only--