@Cassandra@autistics.life
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Cassandra

@Cassandra@autistics.life

Trying to find community at the end of the world.

Favourite topics include #autism, trauma, brains, #accessibility, tech, injustice, healing, animals, nature, #StarTrek, words, nonsense, polls.

No boosts without explanatory #AltText.

Header: a Canadian forest in autumn. Tall dark brown trunks, a profusion of yellow and orange leaves, small patches of green.

Avatar: a close-up of the painting Cassandra by Evelyn de Morgan. Cassandra tears her flaming red hair as Troy burns behind her.

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ashleyspencer, to random
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I haven't left my apartment for long periods of time in weeks.

My cats refused to eat while I was gone, and eating is Nikita's favorite thing. As soon as I got home, she ate all her food.

Dinah was yowling a really sad sounding cry when I got back. 😢

Cassandra, (edited )
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@ashleyspencer But now she knows you're safe. [heart]

I'm really curious how they’ll react to the fish!

exme, to random
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I've been alone for a few days and it's interesting to see that it doesn't matter if I'm alone and not having to socialize - I still got dissociated and was just very confused home alone not knowing if I'm an actual person who is alive. I know this happens but for some reason I had told myself that if I just get to be alone some time I will feel better. Nope. Felt bad and was alone with the feelings.

Cassandra,
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@exme How you've described that experience is very relatable. How are your next few days looking?

JeremyMallin, to random
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How many years can I still say that I'm "recently" diagnosed?

#ActuallyAutistic

Cassandra,
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@JeremyMallin I don't know the answer, but perhaps a certain percentage of your life? So if you're diagnosed older, after so much of your life not knowing, I think the newness of it can last longer in objective terms.

samantha, to random
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Battery powered appliances such as vacuum cleaner, lawn mowers etc. really is a significant help in getting things done with limited spoons.

It's both not all the time having to fight with a cord which makes using them better, but also that it's much faster to get started and put the appliance away again which makes it more feasible to do a bit of cleaning etc. when I have a bit of spare energy.

Cassandra,
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@samantha Agreed. I had one with a cord that I dreaded using, but now I have a battery operated one that I sometimes even do spot-cleans with!

eclectech, to NoStupidQuestions
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Having established that dandelion seed heads are definitely NOT known as DANDELION CLOCKS by everyone I have a follow on question...

What DO you know them as?

Chatting to people already I have had FLUFFS (Lithuania) and WINDY PUFFS (Canada) both of which are SUPERB.

Are there any others? Will there be enough to make a World Map of Dandelion Names?! 😃

Places, names & any other trivia welcome!

Earlier thread here: https://things.uk/@eclectech/112458271354372250

Cassandra,
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@eclectech I look forward to your results.

zaxxon, to random
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I think I need to live in a commune as a sort of jack of all trades.

Honestly, I don’t think I have the mental makeup, skills, and talents (let alone interest) to “succeed” in our capitalist society.

I’m a tinkerer who enjoys working with wood as much as I enjoy working on computers, researching accounting (or real, anything) as much as I enjoy reading about science*.

Maybe I should start Communauty.

*Oh, but I hate gardening.

Cassandra,
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@zaxxon Cute! Also relatable.

Cassandra, (edited ) to random
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Which of the following are deserving of gratitude?

Cassandra,
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@alex That’s my position as well. Lotta people seem to expect gratitude, though.

Cassandra, to random
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I am pleased to report it is possible to freeze half a waffle cone for later.

xinicit, to random
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I play a game with my dog called “snuggle, no struggle” where I try to pet him and tell him I love him for as long as I can before he gets too excited and start play biting my hands.

Cassandra,
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@xinicit That sounds like an excellent game.

Cassandra,
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@xinicit It is hard to learn not to bite when excited. :D

JeremyMallin, to Etymology
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Funny. A character in this show who was declared by others to be disgruntled, argued that she used to be "perfectly gruntled".

Now I'm wondering if "gruntled" is a word that was ever commonly used.

Cassandra,
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@JeremyMallin I used "keep your eyes peeled" with my francophone partner yesterday and now he would like to know what "unpeeled" eyes are.

Cassandra,
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@schoudaan @JeremyMallin Yeah, my partner's guess was “unpeeled" must mean lids closed.

Cassandra, to random
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An email from a store I don't shop at.

I click here to unsubscribe.

The result is not that store's URL advising they will stop…

but rather a long fillable form from some who the fuck knows third party ad company.

I could uncheck a box to stop receiving that type of email…

but there was no option to “confirm" or "submit”; I had to “save profile.”

No. Fucking no.

Cassandra,
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@dangero @datajake1999 [feeling stabby]

ashleyspencer, to random
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Adventures in trying to get my Strattera.

Insurance won’t pay for the new dosage, so put in a request last night to have my psych send a prescription to the pharmacy down the street. Except I think he start his vacation already and he doesn’t come back until end of June.

So now I called the pharmacy to have them call my insurance company’s pharmacy to get it transferred. Now I wait. She said it can take 24 hours to get it from them sometimes.

Meanwhile I’m struggling hardcore trying to work😭

Cassandra,
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@ashleyspencer Did it go okay? This whole process sounds so frustrating.

Cassandra,
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@ashleyspencer Ugh. What a nightmare.

JeremyMallin, to random
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I saw someone talking about password rules…

The worst password idea I ever had was to actually write a script to generate 256 random characters, including special characters, to use for my WiFi password. I didn't realize that in the near future, I would have devices that needed WiFi but couldn't accept a cut and paste of the password because they had no USB ports or GUI that would allow it.

Manually entering WiFi passwords on "Smart TVs" and other devices sucks by the way.

Cassandra,
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@JeremyMallin I knooooooooow. Mine isn't 256 characters, but still, all the over-over-over-down-down-down is annoying.

JeremyMallin, to random
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Ow. I slept on my hand again last night, and it still hurts. 🤕

Cassandra,
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@JeremyMallin Another manufacturing defect. We shouldn't be able to injure ourselves while unconscious.

Cassandra, to random
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My plan for tomorrow is (1) laundry and (2) Star Trek AND THAT'S IT.

Cassandra,
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It is 14:30 and I’m just now getting to Star Trek. I’m starting not with the new ep of Discovery but with Star Trek V: The Final Frontier, in preparation for the Streaming Syboktacular.

I might have seen this one before, but I doubt it. I really don’t like James TOS Kirk.

But: we gain strength from the sharing.

Cassandra,
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@Dianora Oh yeah, Spock is hot.

stephanie, to random
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Aww, the feeling when, after feeling anxious for a few days, you realize that you were worried for nothing.

Apparently, I can translate properly for the public accounts committee of the House 😆

Cassandra,
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@stephanie Were you worried about the vocabulary?

Cassandra,
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@stephanie Bien fait! :)

schoudaan, to random
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I've been feeling a little tired and overstimulated over the last few days and I've been trying to find a way to decompress. It's quietly hilarious to me that simply sitting on the couch with a blanket over my head seems to be quite effective.

Cassandra,
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@schoudaan Same. It's messed up that we're discouraged from using these basic tools just because other people don't need them.

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