@Aphelion
The ancient Greek considered nine types of love. I agree that Eros, Mania and Agape may be/are quite disturbing. However, Philia, Storge, Pragma, Ludus, Meraki and Philautia are positive and supportive for a healthy life. Wouldn't you agree?
"Surfing was of such value to early Hawaiians that it was forbidden to work or war during prime surf season – everyone took a full three months off over winter for social bonding via play and playful competition — called The Makahiki Festival."
