The problem I have is they put their politics in the software. In the instances they manage. In the hardcoded slur filter (that they did acquiesce and make available to disable) and even in their documentation and statements.
Frankly anyone that goes to the software is swiftly going to find out their stances and it’s going to be, at best, a lightning rod for opinions and judgements.
So as an individual I find it very hard to reconcile supporting them in any way by advocating for the software, participating in it’s development or running an instance given all of the above. Especially when there are perfectly serviceable alternatives that don’t have such baggage.