What are some good role models for men?
Feel free to highlight people from both reality and fiction - and why they make a good role model.
Feel free to highlight people from both reality and fiction - and why they make a good role model.
owenfromcanada, Aragorn from the Lord of the Rings. Kiss your homies on the forehead, then stab a nazgul.
I read an article where the author explained how she felt so comfortable with all the men in LotR because of the healthy portrayal of masculinity.
Iceblade02, I will also submit Stephen Fry - for afaik being a great guy all around.
Rookwood, There’s a lot of good British comedians who are. Stephen had a cocaine addiction, but he’s talked about it openly and his struggle with it.
Zachariah, Mr. Rogers
Steve Irwin
Bob Ross
LeVar Burton
Utah Philips
Thích Nhất Hạnh
FBJimmy, When Steve Irwin was alive I thought he was amazing, but then again he died as I entered my twenties… These days when I look back at pictures like this, I do question how much of a ‘great guy’ he was…
https://lemmus.org/pictrs/image/e53af789-9c4d-43f7-a994-76d709305e7d.webp
OlPatchy2Eyes, That baby is the second safest person in that entire arena
morphballganon, Steve Rogers. He tries to see where people are coming from when they disagree. He only kills Nazis because Nazis are bullies; he’s not just blindly following orders. He steps into situations out of concern for others’ well-being, not as a chore or for self-gain.
Dagwood222, Someone said that Steve Rogers real super power was being able to always make the right choice
VaultBoyNewVegas, I can see that. In the comics that’s generally been Caps thing is his unwavering morality.
partial_accumen, Mr Rogers
BeefPiano, Ted Lasso is a great portrayal of masculinity
Iceblade02, Is the series worth watching even for someone entirely uninterested in sports?
Wwwbdd, I found it to be saccharine garbage. I struggled through one season because I always heard good things and I truly hated it by the end. It’s on the level of Paw Patrol for dramatic tension
Crackhappy, Valid, I can see why you think that.
BeefPiano, That actually becomes a plot point for S2 and S3, they explore why Ted is the way it is.
Crackhappy, Yep. 100% absolutely. I am also not into sports at all, and honestly I don’t even give a crap about the sports part, I care about the fantastic portrayal of what real men are.
I_Am_Jacks_____, Absolutely. The soccer/football aspects of the show are really pretty minimal. I didn’t go into the show as a soccer fan and really enjoyed it.
Iceblade02, Guess I’ll check it out then!
ada, There’s hardly any sports in it, despite the theme of the show
JustZ, They go out of their way to not show the sprorts, and when they do it’s comically bad.
BeefPiano, Yeah, I don’t like any sports and I loved Ted Lasso. A part of my fondness might be due to the show arriving in the thick of COVID and the Trump presidency.
Iceblade02, I’ll admit, I was stuck on this for a while before posting, trying to come up with a (relatively) recent example.
My pick is Baby from Baby driver (awesome movie btw). It is the story of a young man who partly through poor decisions, and partly through circumstance ends up in bad circles. Throughout the movie, he learns to stand up for himself, what (he believes) is right, and those he cares for.
What I found most compelling however is how he - when faced with a serious choice - takes responsibility for his actions and mistakes, owning up to them and in the process stops the people he cares most about ending up in harms way.
In my opinion, that is perhaps one of the most important parts of being a man, owning and taking responsibility for your actions, even when that may come at a great personal cost.
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