Honestly, it sounds like you do a lot of driving and a full-electric car would save you a lot! I can understand not wanting to put all your eggs in one basket charging at home, but if you also have an ICE car you won’t be totally stuck by an extended power outage or whatever. Give full-BEV some thought. Eventually you realize you don’t need to charge anywhere but home, aside from road trips and rare power outages. The only times I use public charging within 50 miles from home is when it’s free (who am I to turn down free juice?) Plus, as far as power outages go, an EV is an asset: my car doesn’t support vehicle-to-load (V2L) or anything, but I have an inverter I can plug into the 12-volt battery that can run a fridge for a few days or so.