I 100% agree, I just think I may have worded it wrong. I’m super excited for when everything starts connecting. I prefer Kbin for that reason to begin with. It will connect with Lemmy, Mastodon, even Guppee (I think it’s called) where I already have an eye on a community I want to join there.
I just think that having a strong home instance also promotes inclusivity for those who may not quite grasp that idea yet. They can still participate at their rate in their home instance and in time stretch their legs out. In servers that already are federated, they don’t have that option. They HAVE to go where everyone is flocking until things break up into smaller places. That can be daunting for those just getting on board, as many posts here have shared concern about.
It’s a matter of having more options to interact how you want, where you want. If that makes more sense?