I apologize for deleting my comment. I felt I was too new to have valid opinions on the matter. I got used to reddit picking apart comments lol (just like what you mentioned). I'm still not used to the community here.
I'm staying with lemmy, tbh. The community is refreshing. They actually seem to encourage (mature/open) discourse here. I wasn't as active in reddit as I am here in less than 24 hours. Lmao. I still miss some of the subs I frequent and they'll probably be the reason I'll still pop up in reddit from time to time.