Hagarashi8,
@Hagarashi8@sh.itjust.works avatar

Well, it's just feels like more close community, so it's just subconsciously feels better to be not too rough.

Grosboel,

Enjoy it while it lasts. It probably isn't gonna be like this when more refugees have arrived.

dusk,

oof, would you look at the negativity in this comments section

SOS,

we need to introduce lemmy to the power of extreme violence

Mir,

Yeah, for now...

celerate,
@celerate@lemmy.world avatar

I'm sorry, I'll try to be more violent.

testaccount789,
@testaccount789@sh.itjust.works avatar

User @celerate has been defenestrated

LlamaSutra,
@LlamaSutra@sh.itjust.works avatar

…for now.

Once you get critical mass it’s a race to the dumbest post.

catboss,

I am trying to get there, but so far I don't seem to be dumb enough. Please kick me when I make it.

orclev,

Would it help if we just started racing to comment "first" on every new post?

manitcor,

this is why small instances ppl

Kempeth,

As long as you don't go into any post regarding the Ukraine war...

cryptosporidium140,

This is actually my second time on Lemmy, I tried it like 6 months ago and it was sooo different I couldn't handle all the tankposts

MoreIronOre,

I've read the term 'tankie' more in one week on Lemmy than in the rest of my life combined.

cryptosporidium140,

It seems to be getting better though, lemmygrad was the largest instance of Lemmy for a long time and I couldn't even get a word in regarding Ukraine without all 10 users downvoting me lol

Lemminary,

Absolutely not. But I must say that I don't miss the toxicity at all. Being on the (liberal?) Fediverse has done wonders for my mental health. There's little tolerance for bullshittery and that helps foster a stronger sense of real community for a greater cause in my mind.

name_NULL111653,

I don't think it's even necessarily all the same political alignment, so much as it is that we're all united against Reddit and this corporate tomfoolery right now. It won't last forever, but in being united for a common cause, we've sort of achieved world peace lol. I'm a libertarian. I've seen us, republicans, democrats, liberals, conservatives, socialists, and everything in between uniting to discuss technology, bash Reddit, and work to build back our global communication forums. This is the progress in humanity that the internet's creators envisioned. This is unity and peace. It won't last forever, but if we can at least continue to respect each other (while holding different opinions), unite against those who show no respect or dignity, and continue to rebuild together, we have in my opinion bettered humanity for years, hopefully generations to come. Even expecting that this platform won't last forever - none ever will - we have learned through this to not take our open forum and free discussion for granted.

gaytswiftfan,

so far I've experienced a ton of whataboutism and really sus views/devils advocate type shit on here (lemme.ml) that makes me not want to browse. is there a better alternative that's not saying "why can't we all just have our own opinion ❤️🌈" on shit like genocide and anti LGBT culture

manitcor,

so many more instances, back when these were ISPs people would change to save a dollar, now that its free social media people are trapped?

gaytswiftfan,

I'm not sure what you're saying here?

BetaAssimilation,

Beehaw has a strict no hate speech policy and the mods aren’t afraid to put their foot down when people are sort of toeing the line about being a terrible person. That’s my instance and I’m very proud of it and it’s mod team. Sounds like it would be a good fit for you, too. Also, even if you don’t get an account there, you may be happy hanging out on the communities they host. Here’s a link to the mods describing their philosophy. https://beehaw.org/post/107014

gaytswiftfan,

you're the second person to recommend beehaw! I'll switch over !! thank you ☺️

golden_zealot,
@golden_zealot@lemmy.ml avatar

There are other lemmy instances which might work better for you than lemmy.ml in that case.

I believe the beehaw.org instance might fit that description, would recommend checking them out.

Micfoo,

Give it time, we're all new to the party.

Once we're all comfortable we can argue like we used to.

Grander,

Hey fuck you man! I'm comfortable!

Flukemaster,

You can't tell me what to do! I wanna argue now

Fredselfish,

I'm ready lets do this thing.

agentshags,
@agentshags@sh.itjust.works avatar

Stop being such a shill for argument!

Chainweasel,

So far the people who were most likely to jump ship on reddit were those who were the most fed up with what reddit has become lately.
I just had my 10th cakeday on reddit about a month ago and I've seen a steep decline in quality for both posts and interactions for the last 4-5 years, with it accelerating in the last year or so. Those that never tried old reddit on desktop or a 3rd party app see no reason to jump ship for another platform, and a large portion of the rude commenters and trolls showed up after the new layout was default and reddit had their own official app in the app stores.
Reddit just filtered out most of the people that made the site what it was in the first place. If it was turning into a shithole before all the people that actually care about the site left, just imagine what it will be like in the coming weeks now that we're gone.

hydra,

it's going to rapidly become a poorly moderated dumpster and people will eventually stop visiting until it becomes a zombie forum

oh_so_hazey,

If it was turning into a shithole before all the people that actually care about the site left, just imagine what it will be like in the coming weeks now that we’re gone.

i don't know why this made me lol but it did

Windshear,

It's what happens with a small community. Interaction and discussion VS lowest common denominator humour for mass votes.

We all want Lemmy to succeed, but that only means that it'll turn back into reddit. It's the natural cycle of social media.

possiblylinux127,

Possibly but at least Lemmy is federated.

catboss,

Thanks for the gold kind stranger?

oh_so_hazey,

Come a day, we'll all end up back on Fark and the cycle will repeat itself.

NewEnglandRedshirt,
@NewEnglandRedshirt@lemmy.world avatar

I told my gf, who I met on Reddit, about migrating from Fark to Reddit, and I'm trying to get her to join us here... but now she went and is exploring Fark, which is somehow still around, and I'm like you're doing it wrong!

aka_oscar,

For now dun dun duun

ohellidk,

gonna be a while until the place starts arguing and fighting like reddit did. just need some differing opinions mixed in, then BAM! I doubt it will be as bad since people aren't chasing karma as much.

momentary,

What's the deal with karma on lemmy, is there something that makes it much different from reddit?

Flukemaster,

No global count afaik.

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