I think we're just going to have to agree to disagree. In my opinion posting the same thing across 11 subreddits (even as crossposts), pinging a bunch of other users, and making a lot of comments that mostly just said "move to lemmy" is excessive.
I'm not a mod of one of the subs so I can't explain why they did or didn't do something.
Again, I don't necessarily disagree with your motives but you made yourself a really easy target for reddit.