tollsidares, Sexy human reading this (yes you) never assume someone is "out of your league"!
Attraction is a highly variable and ever-changing thing and you never know what revs someone else's engine.
Also be willing to revisit your own "type" as you get older -- you may be surprised how your tastes change over time. Lean into "yes" when asked by someone outside your norm, and if it's still a "no", say so directly and respectfully.
You're all so much sexier than you think you are.
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