@admin - based on woof.group's CoC & moderation policy -- and the aforementioned instance's self-stated member requirements (ugh) -- this sounds like a candidate for our block list.
@queersamus We use Wet Platinum silicon lube for pretty much everything except ass2mouth and fisting: jacking, toys, anal, froting, etc.
Downsides are that it stains sheets and eventually degrades some silicon toys. We buy it by the gallon (this pic is from 2020 of our second bottle new and we need to buy a third now).
My ghost date could have been cuddled up to this tonight. And if I was a spiteful queen I'd text it to him and say as such, but I will just share with y'all instead.
Sexy human reading this (yes you) never assume someone is "out of your league"!
Attraction is a highly variable and ever-changing thing and you never know what revs someone else's engine.
Also be willing to revisit your own "type" as you get older -- you may be surprised how your tastes change over time. Lean into "yes" when asked by someone outside your norm, and if it's still a "no", say so directly and respectfully.
