🧵 I'm going to talk a bit about virgin shaming. It's not cool or clever or with any merit. Aside from the flaws in the concept (the dichotomy of virgin and non-virgin is about as true as the dichotomy of man and woman), it's just an illogical characteristic to judge someone by. People can have all sorts of reasons they haven't had sex (whether by choice or not) and they're under no obligation to, end of. There is also an overlap of knowledge and understanding of sex and relationships, so some people without direct experience could be wiser than people who brag about how much sex they get. It's not that they're naive, or undesirable, or damaged -- and why they may be less experienced is none of our business.