ZombieGopher, 6 months ago

@Monsterlady I don't think it's actually an order that people go in. You sort of just weave in and out of all 5 until you reach a state where you're mostly in acceptance.

Monsterlady, 6 months ago

@ZombieGopher That seems to be the case right now

ZombieGopher, 6 months ago

@Monsterlady Reached mostly acceptance? Or still weaving? :P

Monsterlady, 6 months ago

@ZombieGopher Sometimes, but then I relapse and fall back.

ZombieGopher, 6 months ago

@Monsterlady that's normal too 🙂

Monsterlady, 6 months ago

@ZombieGopher I think I've relapsed the last two days.

belghast, 6 months ago

@Monsterlady @ZombieGopher The weird thing about grief is that it can always come back with full force almost like no time has passed to really blunt it.

Example my grandmother has been gone for well over a decade and there will be days where it just hits me so freaking hard I can barely breathe. Then next day life will be fine again.

Monsterlady, 6 months ago

@belghast @ZombieGopher I hear you. Sometimes I swing back into days where I miss my nana even though she's been gone that long too.