Help...
Found out today Dad has late stage mesothelioma in home hospice care, it happened really fast, and claims he won't let any of us visit him or have a funeral. We have a complicated relationship but there is love there. I want to sit with him for even a short time before goes. I wrote begging him to change his mind. My dilemna is do I do what he wants and stay away, or get on a plane and go to him anyway against his wishes?
