serious question: why do many (most?) people share 2 grammatical versions of their pronouns, like he/him, she/her, they/them?
Why choose these arbitrary ones, instead of only the first one, trusting people know how to decline them? Or use all declensions like he, his, him or they, their, them?
genuinely curious how this developed, since I was kind of late to the pronoun party.
@lex It may be that there are some genderfluid people for whom gender varies with case (he/her or she/him). Perhaps doing things and experiencing things others do are experienced in different genders for some, but this is only speculation on my part. I'm on team she/her.
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