@smolwaffle@drewdevault It's a generalization. I'm not being entirely serious, but more often than not, people prefer games where there are winners and losers. I suppose it's not too much of a stretch to extrapolate that to how we conduct inter-personal relationships.
Let me say that this saddens me, and I don't think that's how we should conduct them, but I've been on the receiving end of such behavior one too many times to ignore it.