@bittersweetdb I wanted to get back to this and note that a funny thing happened socially with bsky and fedi, which is that most of my closest friends who are online are here, but not posting much, and then the vast majority (maybe 90%) of my friendly acquaintances and former colleagues went to bsky, many after bouncing off fedi. So if I'm going to grumble about something with shared context to anyone besides my group chats, it's bsky or nowhere.