rail_, 
Just because I'm okay with being referred to using feminine terms doesn't mean I'm a girl in denial.
No I'm not. I'm not a girl and don't want to be one.
I'm also okay with some masc terms (and traits!) being applied to me and I don't think anybody would ever say I'm cis in denial because of that lmao.
Eh every time someone says that, even as a "joke", I'm a bit annoyed.
