Finally figured out getting #hunspell working for #ispell in #emacs on #windows (for whenever I can't be in wsl or a better OS) by hard-coding my values as advised by this stackoverflow answer https://emacs.stackexchange.com/questions/14952/how-do-i-set-up-hunspell-on-a-windows-pc#comment68406_22311 . I tried so many other ways of getting it working but I kept breaking on it not knowing my LANG (since not defined in windows) and my dictionary list wasn't loading with the regular instructions. Sometimes dumb and working is better than smart and in a rabbit hole.
Update: I fixed it.
I had Jinx, Hunspell, and Flyspell going off at the same time. For some reason, "I've" is "incorrect" in the British dictionary? I just took out Jinx and Flyspell (disabled it) completely and I'm just using Hunspell for now. We'll see if that works. I have 3 dictionaries on it: en_US, en_GB, fr (for French).