@Bard@transfem.social

Bard

@Bard@transfem.social

UK-based, 36y/o. Pansexual soft creature, he/him.
Some kind of AMAB genderqueer... thing.

https://pronouns.cc/@HylianBard

Ask me things! https://retrospring.net/@Bard

Gaming enthusiast, anime aficionado and proud rat dad.

Monogamous. Married to @Naz

Trans rights are human rights. We should improve society somewhat.

"Bard is one of my favourite brothers" -@yassie_j
"gotta break a few Bards to make an omelette" -https://transfem.social/@vivianers
"The Yuri supply is apparently one of my hallmarks." -@Bard
"if anyone said “continue to collect anime girls that make me go doki-doki” I would cringe, but when you say it, it sounds cool" -@yassie_j
"you do the funnys and you care about people" -https://transfem.social/@BlahajBlast
"you make me feel up when I'm down" -@Sparky
"The Cute Purple Creature" -@vaelfonia

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Bard, to random

Good morning! I was expecting a much bigger notification mess when I woke up!

Ah well. Today is Another Great Day ​:neocat_heart:​

Bard, to random

Right, now I've set the timeline on fire (in a good way) I'm fucking off to play Mario.

Bard, to random

Honestly, thank you everyone. I knew some folks would be excited, but the sheer outpouring of support is so touching.

Thank you for being with me on this journey up to this point ​:neocat_heart:​

Bard,

@yassie_j Thanks Yas. I'm prepared for that eventuality too. Some folks have prepped me quite well lately :3

Bard,

@MagicLike Absolutely. In fact, I hope to see aot more of you :3

(Finally remembered to hit that button)

Bard, to random

Oh sweet gods, my notifications ​:astolfo_cry:​

Bard, to random

So I should probably clarify: all that has happened to me is that I have come to terms with the fact that I'm not cisgender.

I don't know what form that is going to take, all I know is that something inside me has given, and I want to be less traditionally masculine and embrace more of my femininity. I don't think I'm a woman. Just not a man.

He/him pronouns are fine, and I'm okay being referred to in neutral terms or perhaps as a boy, not a man.

Bard,

@katie_cal Thank you. I downplay it because the shift must have been fucking obvious, but it IS a big deal for me to have said this.

If I think of anything I'll keep you in mind. Do feel free to throw things out in DMs if they occur to you too ​:nkoWave:​

Bard,

@LianSirenia Oh there have been chips coming off this egg for ages. But I won't deny, having some new people join in has probably accelerated the process.

So I sincerely thank you ​:neocat_heart:​

Bard,

@Miyokaya Haha, yeah it's been a long time coming. Since before the Tumblr influx really.

Thank you. It's going to be weird relinquishing my Token Cis title, but I know I'm in good hands here.

Bard,

@admirallazuli Like, we joke, but it does feel like a somewhat significant Fedi event, doesn't it?

Bard,

@yassie_j Are you saying I wasn't already based!? ​:astolfo_cry:​

Bard, to random

I just convinced a coworker to evolve his shiny Eevee into Sylveon. He was very pleased ​:sylveon_uwu:​

Bard, to random

When you're being mean to me online, to his is who you're being mean to

ChloeCat, to random

fun fact! you can send a dm to people without tagging them.

  • posted by Chloe
Bard,

@ChloeCat You sure can. People do it to me all the time :3

Bard, to random

I have officially logged out of my account on matrix.org, because having two accounts on Fluffychat was bugging out my notifications. Hooray for small home servers run by friends!

Bard, to random

Reminder to myself that a picrew doesn't have to represent you totally accurately. It can be somewhat idealised.

Bard, to random

Good morning everyone. If you have something you want to do today, I hope you can get it done ​:neocat_heart:​

ChloeCat, to random

Okay, I'm getting really tired now.
I think it's about time to head to sleep.

Today was pretty good overall; we got ​:garden_low_res:​ out of it so it wasn't all bad.
Hopefully tomorrow will be even better.

nini everyone!
Remember, you matter more than you think you do!

  • posted by Chloe
Bard,

@ChloeCat Goodnight Chloe! Sleep well and I'm sure I'll see you when you wake up.

ChloeCat, to random

​:garden_low_res:​
still can't believe this is an actual emoji now

  • posted by Chloe
Bard,

@ChloeCat I didn't know it was Garden at first and wondered what streamer I don't know had been turned into a meme this week ​:blobcat3c:​

Bard, to random

New approach to the day: taking the energy from all the kind compliments and other stuff I received and letting the good vibes flow through me ​:Elainacheer:​

Bard,

@NumbersCanBeFun Yes you can, and thank you ​:neocat_heart:​

LianSirenia, to random

notif pop
300 follower achievement

oan;voirh;gbianbr
how....
Still can't process it, for years before this point I hung out in a friend circle discord and had a twitter of, like, 4 followers I barely used.

Bard,

@LianSirenia It never stops being weird gaining followers. I know I don't have requests turned on, and most of my checks over 900 followers never interact with me, but that many people, at some point, decided they wanted to see what I had to say? My nonsense? Bloody unreal.

Bard, to random

Wait, more of you live in the UK than I thought? Cor blimey

Bard,

@BlahajBlast @ielenia @ChloeCat It's more a general apprehension about meeting people. My subconscious will latch onto anything and be like "Hmm, I don't know Bard, have you considered X or Y?"

Like I said, I'm never saying no. I just have to figure out how I feel if anything is ever suggested. I would certainly like to meet some people if I could

Bard,

@BlahajBlast @ielenia @ChloeCat Don't we all!

It's really nice to know that I have more UK kin here than I thought in either case! ​:neocat_heart:​

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