As a mixed third generation immigrant, I get this a lot. In my experience, most people want to know my ethnicity, but for some reason they never ask me that directly.
OP has only only been here for 4.5 months on an exchange. He clearly has rose-tinted glasses on.
I’m not denying what he is saying but I visited the UK back in February last year after 5 years here and I had a wonderful time. It felt so good to just talk to people in English and share banter, spend time with family, not have to overthink every interaction. Sure people can be loud and it can be a bit grim but it felt refreshing after being here so long. I don’t really understand what these “conflicts” OP is referring to. I’ve only really had a bad encounter with some chavs before.
I had a good think about what I wanted out of life after that trip, and decided to move back in April (especially for career reasons). I think being the only foreigner in a traditional Japanese company has really burnt me out. But I’m glad I got to spend some time in this country!
20 upvotes but no comments? Strange. Anyway, I think a big factor that you did not mention is that Japanese people generally don’t complain. The concept of “shouganai” is so ingrained here that idea of complaining about something can be interpreted as “well what do you want me to do about it?”. But in the scenario that you mentioned, they probably do think they are burdening you, otherwise you wouldn’t say you are busy . Or it could be a case of 思いやり
This was a big culture shock compared to the UK where people complain all the time, even just to vent their feelings.
OSAKA – An American man known for streaming provocative videos has been arrested on suspicion of breaking into a construction site in Osaka, police said Friday....
Last few days have been amazing. Here in northern Tohoku, the temperatures went from around 24 overnight down to 15ish. And the daytime temperatures are much more tolerable now at around 25. I am ready for fall.
You are buried in a coffin 6ft deep, with no light or cell phone. There is only a small tube connected to the coffin from outside that allows you to breathe (edit: you can breathe with no difficulty). After 48 hours, you are dug up and given 1 million dollars. Do you do it?...
No way. Imagine being stuck in complete darkness unable to move your body for that amount of time. I’d lose my mind and probably have a panic attack thinking to myself what if they don’t dig me up?. The money isn’t worth the mental trauma that would cause me.
I read the article but they missed the point that higher inflation will cause consumers to spend less and ultimately slow the economy, increasing unemployment. Higher unemployment means more competition for jobs and lowball salaries. Now we might not see widespread layoffs here but the average person will be stuck earning peanuts.
I’m in the car on my way to the deep inaka to spend time with my gf’s family at her grandma’s home. Last year we spent 8 hours there and my legs got so numb sitting on the tatami the whole time. There’s also no WiFi or mobile signal. But they are nice people! I’ll be back to work on Monday.
I’m extremely scared my career is fucked. My GitHub username is linked to my real identity. However if someone were to search my username up, the reddit profile of someone who posts regularly on porn subs and tweets inflammatory political shit appears....
Ah I misread that, If I were you, I’d just make your GitHub look as professional as possible. So that in the extremely rare chance that someone does Google you, it’s obvious that the the accounts aren’t linked.
That being said, your career is not over and the anxiety you have is all in your head.
I’ve been trying to ween myself off Amazon, but it’s far too convenient here, especially since I don’t have a car. I’d use Rakuten ichiba more, but there’s just too much information density and I like being able to pick some deliveries up at the konbini.
If it was a private secure carpark, I wonder if you could set up a tent there? Take showers at a nearby gym and use a pocket WiFi to stay online. But I guess cooking and electricity would be an issue though.
It’s summer festival time. Just ate yakisoba at my local festival. It’s ¥400 but the noodles always seems thicker than what the supermarket sells. What gives?...
I normally eat before or after I go. In my experience most of the festival food I’ve eaten has been overpriced (relative to size) and subpar in quality.
I believe in you! (startrek.website)
Seoul vs. the rest: University pyramid crumbling at the bottom (www.koreaherald.com)
“I would rather give up another year of my youth studying and trying again if I don’t make it ‘in-Seoul.'”...
Test Yourself: Which Faces Were Made by A.I.? (www.nytimes.com)
Why do people keep asking where I'm from?
Up until I started working, I didn’t really encounter that question. When I did start working, people started asking me that question....
Thoughts when you fly back home?
Cross post from reddit that just got locked:...
Self-Observation: Talking about being busy
Dear cozy little Lemmy World Japan Life community,...
Controversial U.S. livestreamer arrested over trespassing in Osaka (www.japantimes.co.jp)
OSAKA – An American man known for streaming provocative videos has been arrested on suspicion of breaking into a construction site in Osaka, police said Friday....
End of the long summer heat.
Last few days have been amazing. Here in northern Tohoku, the temperatures went from around 24 overnight down to 15ish. And the daytime temperatures are much more tolerable now at around 25. I am ready for fall.
Would you be buried alive for 48hr for a million dollars?
You are buried in a coffin 6ft deep, with no light or cell phone. There is only a small tube connected to the coffin from outside that allows you to breathe (edit: you can breathe with no difficulty). After 48 hours, you are dug up and given 1 million dollars. Do you do it?...
Where is this "strong wage growth" the article is talking about? (japantoday.com)
Did your wages go up? Mine didn’t, neither my wife’s.
Japan economy gets major boost from weak currency (www.bbc.com)
6% is huge. The question is, who benefits?
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I’m extremely scared my career is fucked. My GitHub username is linked to my real identity. However if someone were to search my username up, the reddit profile of someone who posts regularly on porn subs and tweets inflammatory political shit appears....
Amazon Prime: price increase (news.yahoo.co.jp)
Amazon announced monthly prices will increase by ¥100, and yearly prices by ¥1,000....
Italki experiences?
Has anyone used Italki or a similar platform to aid in their studies?...
Clean Tiny Home... (lemmy.world)
I wonder if you’d get in trouble for actually sleeping there?
The Stoic Ideal - Micheal Sugrue (youtu.be)
A fantastic lecture on Stoicism.
Festival foods: what do you recommend?
It’s summer festival time. Just ate yakisoba at my local festival. It’s ¥400 but the noodles always seems thicker than what the supermarket sells. What gives?...
This week’s reflections on death, from The Practicing Stoic by Farnsworth (i.imgur.com)
Haiku format has helped me pear down my thoughts for later review. Hope you find it helpful like I have.
Thursday Complaint Thread
This was one of the most fun threads in the old place. Any grievances you’d like to air?
Day 186 “Point” from 365 Tao: Daily Meditations (lemmy.world)
cross-posted from: lemmy.world/post/1082995...