For me it was a shift in perspective. It sounds trite, but basically, I turned “having fun” in to the thing I’m trying to win. So I still optimise and strategise, but sometimes it’s to make ridiculous moves that will make people laugh. Sometimes it’s to keep the game close, and sometimes it’s just to try and win. It all depends on who I’m playing with and the mood at the table
Sore Losers of Lemmy: What Helped You Start to Lose with Grace?
EDIT: Thank you all so much for your thoughtful input. It means so much to me....