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vlrny

@vlrny@disabled.social

🇨🇦 Good-hearted weirdo; expert pillow-nester; lover of trees and dark irony (not necessarily at the same time).
#actuallyAutistic #chronicIllness #chronicPain
Was #yyc, currently Eastern Ontario, trying to put down roots in #Guelph
Pronouns: she/her/gurl!

Thx for CW on food photos. 🤢

I tend to start conversations I am too tired to follow up on, but ya'll just carry on, I'm lurking.

Header image: bare curly branches reaching to a blue sky.
Profile image: Is me. Dat's mah face.

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vlrny, to lonelinesscorps
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Bad news is I am back in the stupid town and stupid apartment that nearly killed me to pack up my life and move it to Guelph (yay!)

Good news is I have access for an installation of !
Choices this round:



Starting between 5pm and 7pm my time.
Let me know if you are interested and which movie.
@lonelinesscorps

vlrny,
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@JulieB aw thanks. Appreciate the support and commiseration.

I am giving myself permission to have ALL the feels. There's a lot to process emotionally as I return to this space.

It's unpleasant here, but I keep telling myself I'm not trapped here this time, I am just coming back to reclaim my life. 💪🧡

vlrny,
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@JulieB
Yes ma'am! 🐢💨

vlrny,
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☝️Ok! Am just getting some dinner then can make a movie happen anytime.

Anybody want to join me for a co-watch? You can pick the movie. :)

(if yer reading this days later, ping me anyway, hiding in my room with the a/c on, watching DVDs is pretty much how I will roll the next 2wks).

@lonelinesscorps
(literally, because a/c hyuck hyuck)

vlrny,
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@wordsmith fuck yeah! What time do you want to start? 5:30ish? Or later?

vlrny,
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@wordsmith yep! Excellent time-math there. :)

Will get set up to roll in ~20mins

vlrny,
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Ok! We'll be watching in about 20mins, chatting under

Join us if ya can!

@lonelinesscorps

vlrny,
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@tty thanks! I looking forward to it. :)

vlrny,
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vlrny,
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@wordsmith oh yeah?

vlrny,
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@wordsmith neat!

Your toots aren't showing up in my feed for whatever reason, so be sure to @ me. :)

vlrny,
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@wordsmith but but... It's moisturizing! ;)

vlrny, to random
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Ya know, people with their heads up their butts really need our compassion.

I mean, if ya think about it, it's got to be hella uncomfortable, and there's no way they can see clearly.

...also, can somebody maybe hand them a wipe or something. Poor things.

vlrny, to random
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Today I am extraordinarily proud of myself for eating a vegetable.

vlrny, to random
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I would like to cultivate my own strain of weed and call it "My Last Fuck," just so I can say:

Well, I would get upset about that, but I just smoked My Last Fuck.

vlrny, to mentalhealth
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Following up on a side chat, what are folks doing for lazy food hacks when yer too tired to cook but don't want to eat junk?

Share yer ideas so others can steal 'em!

#spoonies #chronicIllness #longCovid #chronicPain #mentalHealth #selfcare

vlrny,
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I spent a long time living off of roasted chicken legs and baby yams - both could be dumped on a baking sheet without chopping, roasted, then frozen and taken out individually and reheated on a plate in the toaster oven.

vlrny, to random
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I'm watching and everybody has such dewy fresh looking skin I thought: oh hey I should moisturize, I haven't done anything nice for my skin in ages.

Later, I shove my TV glasses up to my forehead so I can fuck around on my phone, only to have the glasses slowly slide back over my eyes.

Apparently, this is why I don't moisturize.

vlrny, to coffee
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Oh you know, just blinking slowly, singing James Blunt songs to my coffee, as one does...

What are the rest of ya'll up to?
@lonelinesscorps

vlrny,
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@ShaunBurch haha yeah coffee will get yer heartrate up, who needs running? ;)

Also nice song. Smooth and bright. :)

vlrny,
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@DemocracySpot Oooo an excellent combo! ☕🎶

vlrny,
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@JulieB that sounds lovely. Boop de boop boop boop back atcha!

vlrny,
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@Her_Doing well yay! That's an awesome project regardless of who you share it with. :)

vlrny,
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@wordsmith pre-retro? That is OLD, dude. Poor thing! ;)

vlrny,
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@tty excellent! All the important boxes checked.

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