@kingbeauregard@afewbugs@ErickaSimone Exactly. It's the fact that the extremely rare cases of women lying get much more media attention than the day-to-day cases (unless they involve the police, these days, or the woman is murdered).
In your case, it may well have been a way of "controlling the narrative" - the longer she had to embed her version of the story with the group, the more difficult for you to refute it without sounding like you were lying.
What an appalling experience.