xahteiwi, (edited )
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“I just finished my slides”, ”I did my talk on the flight over, it's a little rough around the edges”, “I forgot all about this conference and then whipped this up in a panic two days ago”, or something of the sort said casually at the beginning of a talk, is

unixwitch,

@xahteiwi
It is acceptable, if your presentation is a fill-in, because the actual speaker didn't show up and you were spontaneously recruited by the program committee two hours beforehand.

(I've been the session chair in such a scenario)

xahteiwi,
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@unixwitch Yes but then the remark isn't casual and nonchalant, but rather explanatory or apologetic. Presumably, at least.

masek,

@xahteiwi SOP for me unless I reuse a previous slide deck. I want to be current and when I do the slides directly before the presentation, I am perfectly inside the topic upon show time.

xahteiwi,
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@masek Do you, um, not rehearse?

davebauerart,
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@xahteiwi Lack of imagination. At least come up with a good story.

xahteiwi,
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☝️ Anyone who is prone to doing/saying this please take note: your flippant remark might irritate a significant fraction of your audience to varying degrees.

krisbuytaert,
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@xahteiwi the "reasons" you give are a problem .. but I've written slides hours before my talk because I only knew hours before the talk I was filling in for someone

binford2k,
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@xahteiwi I did a form of this just yesterday. I signed up for a lightning talk recycling something that had been Covid canceled. It was based off a blog post. Turns out that I never actually wrote the deck and I had just a few rushed minutes to brain dump out some words and it really needed an apology.

Generally speaking though, I don’t get offended but it rarely comes across well.

xahteiwi,
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@binford2k Right, as said elsewhere in this thread, the adverb "casually" is in the question for a reason.

An apology isn't a casual remark, in my book. 🙂

chrisjrn,
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@xahteiwi (d) entirely dependent on the presenter and the context

purpleidea,
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@xahteiwi I hope that speakers come with super polished talks that they prepare in advance. Personally I'm working on my talk months in advance. Often I'm adding to my demos right up until the night before but only because I want to demo the latest and greatest stuff. So slides do get last minute love because I've been hacking. But it's never out of laziness or not caring.

xahteiwi, (edited )
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@purpleidea Exactly. Like I said elsewhere, the adverb "casually" is in the question for a reason.

For example, I have no problem whatever with someone saying "folks, <other talk> by <other person> gave me this really cool idea last night that I absolutely want to share with you; let's hope the demo deities are with me today and we might want to sacrifice a chicken just to be sure to appease them".

xahteiwi,
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@purpleidea ("Them" being the demo deities, not the other speaker who gave the other talk.)

lufthans,
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@xahteiwi new talk or not, I always review the content and usually make changes shortly before I give a talk

xahteiwi,
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@lufthans Oh sure, everyone makes final tweaks. Or perhaps one would add a cross-reference or back-reference to something that was mentioned in another talk that same day at the same conference. But that usually doesn't lead to the nonchalant "I just finished this" pseudobrag.

glaist,

@xahteiwi @lufthans
Yeah, it does strike me as either a 'Please don't hurt me' defence or a 'I'm so awesome/this isn't even my final form' flex.

xahteiwi,
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@glaist Yes, as mentioned elsewhere in this thread, a "please don't hurt me" hedge would come across as apologetic, not casual — that's why I included the adverb "casually" in the question. In other words, I was indeed referring to the (attempted) flex.

@lufthans

xahteiwi,
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@glaist Also, just to mention it, a new speaker saying something like "this is my first conference, I don't really know what I'm doing, I'm appropriately terrified, and I've been tweaking these slides up to the last moment to make sure they're relevant" is something that would win my unwavering support and sympathy.

@lufthans

glaist,

@xahteiwi @lufthans

Gotcha. Then for me if it's 'So yeah, I just knocked this up' when it's clearly something of substance and value is just a bit of an annoying tic, really. Can't say it hurts me or disrespects me, it's just mildly unnecessary. Maybe a reflection of the person's working culture...

xahteiwi,
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@glaist To me, not being mindful of someone's valuable time (by not doing one's utmost for using that time wisely, and filling it with quality content) is being disrespectful. Times 400, if we're talking about a large auditorium. @lufthans

jforseth210,

@xahteiwi Depends on if the talk is any good

xahteiwi,
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@jforseth210 How does your assessment of the talk at its end influence your intuitive reaction to such a statement at its beginning?

jforseth210,

@xahteiwi It influences my overall perception of a talk. If "I just threw it together" and it's great, that shows that you're very familiar with what you're talking about, it's not all rehearsed. If "I just threw it together" and it's bad, then it just makes you look lazy and disorganized.

xahteiwi,
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@jforseth210 My point is that your overall impression of the whole talk by definition cannot influence your immediate reaction to such a flippant remark made at its beginning.

Unless you are capable of time travel, that is.

exterm,

@xahteiwi If you follow it up with a really good talk I‘ll accept it

xahteiwi,
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@exterm Problem is, that's often what they think they do.

mattb,
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@xahteiwi d) Extraneous information. If the talk's good I don't care either way.

xahteiwi,
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@mattb Ah, I could have added a "🤷‍♂️ dilligaff?" option. 🙂

celesteh,
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@xahteiwi

Having a pre-disclaimer on a talk is exposing a lack of confidence in one's own work. The speaker is undermining themselves.

I would tend not to see this typically as arrogance but out of some kind of fear or imposter syndrome.

xahteiwi,
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@celesteh That's why I specifically added the adverb "casually". I think different considerations apply if they mention such a thing apologetically.

popey,

@xahteiwi
Option D) Potentially a mental health issue

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