@StillIRise1963 Terrible things would come out of my mouth - young or old.
My partner got bent at me for being hostile to the staff of a store when we'd walk in and someone would rush to the door with a supercilious "may I help YOU." "No. NO, YOU cannot."
I pointed out how they didn't do this to the well-dressed customers, they just smiled and nodded at them. He never noticed the difference in the past, because - privilege.