@RaphaelWimmer I like the whole idea of "people coming into my house" because that's the reason why I dislike it: it feels like my responsibility to make sure it's civil (since other guests may see it) and to counter even where I think that disengaging is a much better strategy.
Mastodon gives one no control over comments, so it's like I open my door everyone comes in and I need to clean up after them to make sure other guest are still welcome.