@RickiTarr I was lucky. I was able to afford lots of therapy in my 40s & 50s. Not to mention a really good therapist. I wish I’d found her in my 20s & had started working on my issues then, but bottom line, I’m lucky to have found her at all. It’s VERY hard to find an adoption-centric therapist whose focus & knowledge base is about ADOPTEE issues, rather than those of adopters. @TCMuffin