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Secretspace

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40s UK male, usually Dom but not exclusively so. Loves words and images. I've been here a little while now, so I've kinda found my way around. I obviously enjoy the beautiful smut that some of the people I follow post, I very much enjoy imaginatively captioning, playing with words, asking lewd questions, and interacting with people whose minds are as depraved and preoccupied as my own.

Like most of the lovely people here, I'm open-minded and anti-discrimination.

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ange11eya, to random
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Happy friday everyone! How are we doing today?

Secretspace,
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@ange11eya really good, surprisingly, given that I was drinking last night. And you?

ange11eya, to random
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Good morning! I‘ve been sick the last week or so so i havent been able to post but i just wanted to say im back and feeling better <3

Secretspace,
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@ange11eya I'm glad to hear that you're feeling better!

Secretspace,
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@toomanypancakes took the dog for a long long run, and clearly she'd had enough by the time we got back to the local park, so she clipped my heel and sent me flying before unapologetically sidling up to me as I nursed my wounds 😭

madam__mayhem, to random
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https://madam-mayhem.com/2023/12/11/mayhems-2023-wrapped/

Secretspace,
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@madam__mayhem a mixed bag then, with some successes along the way. I can't help but thinking the world is a worse place for not being corrupted by you!

Some_Emo_Chick, to Funny
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So anyone want to go with me to the festival?

Secretspace,
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@Some_Emo_Chick absolutely, but it does leave me wondering, which side is the pleasant side?

autoerot1ca, to random
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You're working for the rat race
You know you're wasting your time
Working for the rat race
You're no friend of mine.

Secretspace,
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@autoerot1ca the sad thing is that the rat race is actually a mouse trap, so like the rest of us, you're not immune

Secretspace,
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@autoerot1ca it's impossible not to be though when you need to pay for accommodation and food, let alone anything over and above that. Everytime you purchase anything, you participate and everytime you spend money, it's money that has had its cut taken out to contribute towards the rat race

diewillnurWein, to random
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We are not the same 😌

Secretspace,
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@autoerot1ca @diewillnurWein hard to resist when they hug so good

madam__mayhem, to random
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Always keep them guessing…

Secretspace,
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@madam__mayhem the beautiful thing is, I suspect it can flip from one to the other and then back again, time and time again, without explanation or forewarning

Secretspace,
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@madam__mayhem isn't that the appropriate way to deal with boys? If you're occasionally troublesome it'll keep them on their toes and prevent them from being so, and they'll appreciate your sweetness all the more?

Secretspace,
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@autoerot1ca @madam__mayhem I think that sexuality is quite distinct from politics and economics, and that there is pleasure to be obtained from relationships of subjugation, of reward and punishment, even at the same time as believing that these kinds of relationships, when cast large in wider society, are nothing more than feudal.

Maybe that is a relic of subjugation, maybe it is escapism, maybe it is a desire to serve or just a masochistic pleasure. We may have had this conversation before, but in my opinion it is just a personal dynamic and a trust that is built and respected.

Secretspace,
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@autoerot1ca @madam__mayhem people are not required to engage in formal marriage, they are encouraged to do so through tax breaks and the like. People can be killed for loving the wrong person because of politics imposing, from the societal to the personal. Humans have historically used sexuality because it is a way to control them, but this does not make private and personal sexuality a public matter, it just means that it has, on many occasions, been absued in this way.

I don't place limits on what sexuality can be between two private individuals. To have a relation that is unbalanced in terms of power is abhorrent to some and arousing to others. I don't judge either of these views and think that human sexuality can thrive on a spectrum across this, without it ever becoming abhorrent or undesirable, so long as it is underpinned by consent.

(I just had a bit of cheese and cucumber on toast, so have pulled myself together, at least a little!)

Secretspace,
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@autoerot1ca I'm curious to hear what you have to say because I appreciate that you have a thoughtful view about the world and the systems we live under, and you don't unequivocally accept what you're told, which for me is the first prerequisite of a free person

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Secretspace,
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@xxlolaxx that's the kind of Christmas pudding I need 🤤

lynnlasabre, (edited ) to random
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People are being so friendly today. The temperatures dropped and everyone keeps asking if I’m cold.

Secretspace,
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@lynnlasabre so you just look directly into their distracted eyes and say, oh so matter of factly, "no, I'm just aroused"?

Secretspace,
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@lynnlasabre or with similar nonchalance, you say "on the contrary", as you casually remove your top?

autoerot1ca, to random
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How is nut in you November going?

Secretspace,
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@autoerot1ca I'm curious to have a hands up from all those who have been nutted in

lynnlasabre, to random
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When you meet a guy for drinks and he turns out to be nice and hot and big 💦💦💦

Secretspace,
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@lynnlasabre when the date goes so well that it's not his hand you end up holding 🤭

mrscherryb, to random
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    Secretspace,
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    @mrscherryb see, it's just how you like it, all pink in the middle

    Mollysdailykiss, to random
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    Day 107

    “If you look the right way, you can see that the whole world is a garden.” ~ Frances Hodgson Burnett

    Secretspace,
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    @Mollysdailykiss "There is nothing pleasanter than spading when the ground is soft and damp." - John Steinbeck

    followingfloss, to random
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    I'm currently writing a post about Time (specifically making time for sex) for this week's but it also made me think about how there was a time I'd never let ANYONE see me naked without shaving first! If I was seeing a partner multiple times a week I'd shave multiple times a week! Now though, I don't shave my pubes at all & my sex life is amazing. Mr F isn't fazed by it & I love that. I don't think I'll ever go back to being shaven!

    Secretspace,
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    @followingfloss great picture and I love a nice furry bush!

    Mollysdailykiss, to random
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    Day 101

    "When giving directions, it's important to be precise." ~ Jarod Kintz

    Secretspace,
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    @Mollysdailykiss "fate is a one-way street" Paulo Coelho

    kayleighsweet, to random

    Tell me what u would do

    Secretspace,
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    @kayleighsweet give you something to suck and watch it grow progressively stickier until I couldn't resist plunging deep inside of it

    madam__mayhem, to random
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    ‪I SPOKE TO HIM…I have a name. And a bigger crush now. ‬

    Secretspace,
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    @autoerot1ca @madam__mayhem it guarantees traction, one way or the other

    lynnlasabre, to random
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    Happy !

    Secretspace,
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    @lynnlasabre that's an ass that would drive a caged dick wild 🤭

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