How to get started in a traditional gym?

I'm a decently active person - I go jogging weekly, I'm a competitive ballroom dancer (about 7-8 hours/week), and I go bouldering a few times a month. However, I'd like to start a little more regular routine, and one of my coworkers highly recommended getting started at a traditional gym.

Unfortunately, I work remotely, otherwise I would've asked my coworker to show me the ropes.

Anyways, I've never actually worked out at a traditional gym (and known what I was doing). Is my best bet to just hire a personal trainer for a few weeks until I get the hang of what to do? Never having experienced a real gym before, I'm a bit nervous!

Arwenac,

I would recommend the fitness wiki beginner routine. It also has a page where the main lifts are explained.

It is a basic 3 day program where you alternate between two workouts (A & B). So week 1 your would do A-B-A and week two you do B-A-B.

It has the basics with squats, deadlifts, bench press and overhead press so excellent for someone just getting into it.
The program set up and progress is pretty basic and well explained so a great starting point.

Hatchet,

I didn't know about this resource. Thank you!

buckenmuck,

As the other poster said, it depends entirely on your goals--but I'll add that your goals should be driven in part by what is fun and interesting to you. Working out at a gym should be fun. If it's not, change it up until you find something you like.

For your goals, I'd drill down and figure out what "self-improvement" you're really interested in. It kind of sounds like you want to become stronger. If that's right, it's worth asking stronger how? Stronger at what? Lots of people measure strength by their one rep max, but honestly? Improving your 5 rep max at a particular niche exercise is just as valid a way to gauge strength improvement if you hate going ultra-heavy. Similarly, a lot of online resources focus on the squat, bench, and deadlift, but if you really don't like deadlifting... then don't 🙂

I know nothing about competitive ballroom dancing, so I don't have a great sense of whether strength would augment or inhibit your ballroom dancing goals. (I think it's incredibly unlikely that strength would inhibit your ballroom goals, but again, I know nothing about the sport so I recognize it's possible.) If there's some ballroom dancing move that additional strength would help you with, then (as a starting point) you could focus on movements that build strength there.

"Healthier" as a goal is a little vague, but as a starting point physical activity guidelines recommend two days a week of resistance training. If you start by checking that box, you're already getting "healthier," and if you're making yourself do it two times a week, you're also practicing discipline. (The guidelines also recommend conditioning, but I'm guessing that 8 hours a week of competitive ballroom checks that box.)

What kind of resistance training have you done before, what are you interested in doing, and how comfortable are you with barbells?

Hatchet,

I don't know how to squat, bench, deadlift, etc. so I guess learning that would be a good first step. :/

I don't want to sound like "ooh, I'm afraid if I go to the gym I'll get uncontrollably bulky," though I would prefer to specialize in exercises that build core strength and control, which I think means I should go for more reps instead of higher weight?

I don't foresee strength training interfering with ballroom dancing. The sport is very focused on posture, control (precision; contrasting stillness and movement), endurance, and fluidity.

As far as resistance training experience: the house I lived in in undergrad had a bench press... I probably don't have much experience in this area, hence the uncertainty. In fact, I have always favored bodyweight exercises over equipment. I'm not sure if it's a true partiality or a result of my lack of familiarity with the equipment.

One thing I have noticed is that when I exercise alone, it's more difficult to do consistently, but if I have someone to go with (e.g. a friend at the climbing gym, a dance partner), then I find it easy to fulfill those commitments.

buckenmuck,

Squat bench and deadlift are useful to learn if those are exercises you want to do. 😉 If so, this video lays out considerations when squatting, as well as how to. It'd be helpful to watch that, try squatting for a few workouts, and then learn about common squat mistakes. Similar resources exist for the bench and deadlift. But again--you can get stronger without doing these, it depends on what you're measuring.

I've never myself focused on strengthening my core, I've always let squats and deadlifts be "enough" for me, but that's because I'm really focused on powerlifting (that is, squat, bench and deadlift). I do throw in ab and oblique exercises like planks and GHD sit-ups because they can be useful supplements for my goals, but I'm never really focused on them, so if I'm not feeling it... I just don't do them lol. (I'm also not sure how you could measure core strength. Longest plank? Amount of weight at a set of 20 GHD sit-ups? I'm sure there's a way! I'm just not the right person to ask, unfortunately.)

I wouldn't worry terribly much about rep or weight schemas as a beginner. Basically any template you follow for any exercises will get you stronger doing whatever is in the template. After you finish some beginner programming, you can start to really hone in on your goals--it will help to have had some experience to get to know what you like and don't like and what's fun and not. For something focused on the power lifts, you could try something like this. (Looks like that template doesn't include any accessory work, but feel free to throw in whatever after completing the main lifts. Arms, abs, leg isolation exercises, whatevs. The conditioning they recommend you're almost certainly getting with ballroom.) But there's also olympic lifting, which you could find more interesting.

If we were close, I'd offer you to join me for a workout or two, but sounds like you're not nearby (many crossfit gyms near me--and too bad there aren't any near you, it's a great way to become familiar with weight training). So I feel you on being intimidated. TBH, it's fine to go and just do movements with absolutely no weight on the bar for the first day or two or whatever so that you just become familiar with squatting (or whatever), and then to start adding some weight. And m/fitness has a microblog that people seem to be posting their workouts too, if you're aiming for a little bit more accountability than none whatsoever 🙂

slipperysalmon,

Do you have a particular goal in mind? There are lots of workout plans available online that could be a great starting point. One I've used in the past is the Nike Training Club App. It will ask you a few questions on your intentions, and recommend workout routines. Bodybuilding.com is another popular one.

With that said, have you ever considered CrossFit? I realize the barrier to entry can be intimidating, but I would recommend doing a "discovery session" with a gym. Here are the reasons that I find CF work great for me:

  • You have to schedule a class time, this helps keep me accountable.
  • Each class has a "WOD" or Workout Of (the) Day, this means no planning is required on your own.
  • There is a coach present in each class to provide instruction for each movement, and provide modifications where required.
  • Welcoming environment. The CF gyms I've been a member of are very welcoming and non-discriminatory.
  • All members cheer each other on during the workouts and there's always a great energy in the room, a sort of "we're all in this together" comradery.
  • There is always the equipment you need available, because classes are scheduled.

In a CF "discovery session" you typically receive something like:

  • 5 x 1-on-1 classes with a coach who will instruct you through each of the movements.
  • 5 class punch card to attend regular workouts.

Not to say traditional gyms don't work for folks, but I think the pros of a CF gym with the additional cost outweigh the cons of a traditional gym from my experiences.

Hatchet,

Thanks for the info! I guess I hadn't really considered CrossFit. Unfortunately, after a quick Google Maps search, it appears that there are not CrossFit gyms close to where I live.

I do use the Nike Run Club app, so maybe the Training Club app you mentioned could be a good next step.

My goals: mostly self-improvement, becoming more disciplined, and healthier. I'm already working on my diet; this seems like a good next step. Due to my experience with dancing, I'm decently flexible, at least for a dude, but I would not describe myself as strong, which, for someone of my age and health is a gross misuse of resources.

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