avonarret1,

The fun part is accomplishing that but somehow forgetting all the stuff you learned down the line.

fiat_lux,

Why have you chosen to attack me so personally on this fine day? Give me some warning before you completely demolish me like that. Even just a countdown from 3 or something.

ciaocibai,

I have to know if all these memes really describe adhd. Aren’t these all just normal Human behaviours? I feel like most memes here describe me perfectly. Do I have ADHD?

fiat_lux,

I understand completely, and you're right to question it. The answer is that a lot of these behaviours are pretty normal, and it is very possible to identify with some of the memes even if you don't have ADHD. It's when they just keep resonating with you on a really fundamental level, across your entire lifetime, that you should maybe be suspicious. ADHD has a genetic component too, so it might help think about your parents' behaviours and if they also match.

My psych had me complete this self assessment quiz (ASRS v1.1) before my first appointment for evaluation. It might help you too: https://psychology-tools.com/test/adult-adhd-self-report-scale

ciaocibai,

That’s interesting - thanks for sharing. I got 6/6 for the first section and 9/12 for the first section. I have a follow up question too - is there any benefit to being diagnosed as an adult? Not sure if it’s actually worthwhile or makes a difference. Looking back I’ve had numerous people comment to me that I seem ADHD, but I just assumed that’s a (bad) joke.

fiat_lux,

Medication has opened up a whole new world to me, I wish I had known decades prior. It has also given me a better understanding of my body and the way it works, and very importantly: what I need to watch out for. It also made a bunch of old life experiences make sense for the first time.

ADHD is one of the few neuro conditions they have found reliable and useful medication for, with very few negatives, including my favourite: no withdrawals. I think it's worth exploring, even if you decide you're fine the way you are afterwards with no intervention.

Good luck, it is a trip!

milo128,

and i would’ve figured it out, too, if not for me getting bored and starting another project within 48 hours.

Doxin,
@Doxin@yiffit.net avatar

How hard could remodeling a bathroom be anyway?

jaschen,

It’s hard. I also took this job. Finished it and it was well below average.

theneverfox,
@theneverfox@pawb.social avatar

Was going to say this. With a set of calipers and some trial and error, you can make functional things very well

Alami,

Yeah like Donut Trump

LazaroFilm, (edited )
@LazaroFilm@lemmy.world avatar

That’s how I learned JavaScrpt Python and C++. Now I’m programming my own embedded project on a RP2040 with touchscreen, IMU and addressable LEDs. On top of that I learned thanks to my drone hobby how to solder and assemble circuits and with my 3D printing hobby I can print custom parts to hold the electronics I assembled and programmed. Now I’m reading component data sheet before bed and playing puzzles with i2c communication tables. Fun!

My background is filmmaking, I’m a camera operator. I don’t work in IT or engineering. I started these hobbies for fun and they have started to blend into something a loser to a job (that I really enjoy)

CluelessDude,

This is the sort of person I want to be until mid way through, my crisis begins, as I understand that there are people way better than me at insert current task because I must completely be good at it or it isn’t worth it, I just lose my will power at that point and get depressed, give up and repeat the cycle with something new.

LazaroFilm,
@LazaroFilm@lemmy.world avatar

Pick something with a supportive community that will help you.

Damage,

Are you young? After a while you accept that making something functional, even if not perfect in execution, is better than not finishing a perfectly executed project.

mr_pip,
@mr_pip@discuss.tchncs.de avatar

it is called consulting and it eats up your life…

big_onion,

If you have ADHD then hyper focus kicks in and you bet your ass you will be the best person for the job in no time. Add on that imposter syndrome that makes you work double hard and however many decades of self loathing and self hate you have to make you want to over achieve. I somehow went from music degrees to managing a $40 million budget, but it makes sense, sorta.

librechad,

Wanna be a baller

nickwitha_k, (edited )

Fuck.

ETA: Feeling this hard right now. Protip: Always buy important gifts that have to be complete with a deadline. Always. I know you might be thinking “but something that I make for my spouse’s birthday will be much more meaningful.” Stop. Buy a gift. It will save a lot of strife.

OldPain,

I think I’ll take that advice. Thanks!

nickwitha_k,

Make things as a bonus though.

OldPain,

Make things like what?

nickwitha_k,

Whatever your partner would like that you feel like pouring yourself into, if you are so inclined. They will absolutely appreciate it. Just set yourself up for success and avoiding hurting their feelings by not relying on it as the present.

Think of such project-gifts as extra prizes to shower your loved ones in, if and when they are finished.

LemoineFairclough,
nickwitha_k,

That’s good too, if it fits the needs/wants of the given scenario. Just don’t do the big project that you’ve never done before as the primary gift. I say this purely out of interest for others’ happiness and ability to avoid my mistakes.

Ascend910,

But that is how I got started on project that people think will never be successful

EdibleFriend,
@EdibleFriend@lemmy.world avatar

backs away from the book series I’m working out

winterayars,

And i would have gotten away with it, too, if it weren’t for my damned ADHD interfering!

tacosplease,

It’s worked out for me more than once. I have a lot of abandoned projects too though.

AllHailTheSheep,

me right now trying to create a regression to fit tire compound, size, pressure, and rim diameter to predict slip angles, temps, angular forces, and loads in Matlab. (I have no experience with multivariate regressions, Matlab, or physics)

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