CarrierLost,

It’s been said before, but talking through it is a coping mechanism. Like it or not, a lot of people are/were heavily invested in that site, and talking through it is a way to help clear the air and start to move forward.

It’s drama is dominating social media right now, so it’s hard to NOT see it and hear about it, but we all need to let each other move on in the way that’s best for each of us.

flybynightpotato,

Yeah, I definitely feel like I can't shut up about it/stop engaging with it because that's how I'm processing my decision to move away from it. (And because, like @Breafulus_Emphotoga points out, Reddit is/was really addictive, so I'm struggling to go cold turkey and need a support group lol.)

lightingnerd,

I think about it this way: this protest/blackout was the most interesting thing I've gotten from Reddit in quite a while--so it only makes sense that I want to go somewhere else and talk about it, right? XD

Breakfulus_Emphotoga,
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This is very true, I've noticed I've had more free time and others have as well since the start of the end for reddit, reddit was extremely addictive and now people either have to find an alternative, which isn't easy if you use reddit for most of your information or entertainment, or stay on the platform where worse mods are replacing the subs' old mods and most the site is dead.

I say give it a few or 2 and it should die down a lot more as people become more comfortable with the alternatives they chose.

lurkeymclerkface,

Up vote because I like the term "a few or two"

Breakfulus_Emphotoga,
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I didn't even realize I did that, but I'm keeping it because I like it too

Wdc610,

It will change. When everything happened with Twitter and a number of people switched over to Mastodon, all people talked about on Mastodon was Twitter. Within a couple of months that shifted dramatically and now I come across much less Twitter-related content. Most of my mastodon feed now is just the topics that I’m interested in. Give it time.

nowayhosay,
someperson,

Yes, please! I can't wait for non reddit/lemmy/fediverse oriented subjects to rise to the top of the feed. I'm guessing it will take months.

wxboss,

A change of relationships takes time. At first, the old relationship still has a persuasion-pull upon someone, but as time moves on that all changes.

tangentism, (edited )

It's similar to when a work colleague comes back from holiday and you can hear them recount their holiday stories to everyone else.

Yes, it gets boring quickly but the novelty will soon wear off and at some point the colleague will become self aware that they are repeating the same stories over and over and die a little inside.

Take it upon yourself to post comment other than Reddit or about how everyone posts about Reddit

Caffeinated_Capybara,

I think it's kind of the natural flow of things considering the migration but I also feel like it'll die down over time as people get used to lemmy.

biscuitsofdoom,

YES!!! It's lame. It's become obligatory to post some kind of thoughts on Reddit vs Lemmy. Take that effort and go find a link or something and post it.

tuxedosushi,

I feel as if the reddit discussing is dragging on, getting kinda annoying ngl. But as others have said, I think it will eventually die out since the big ol' migration will eventually come to a slow, meaning that lemmy can grow on its own

RadioRat,
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Personally, it's nice to be getting news of Reddit without giving them any traffic. It'll be old news eventually and I'm not a huge fan of shutting down natural discussion.

alottachairs,
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like all hot news this will be old news.

what will be difficult is all the FOMO, what is reddit doing? whats the top news over there. Im caring less and less.

im intrested in how you're doing instead beehaw, are you okay?

Cylinsier,

I do find myself almost reflexively returning to Reddit at times but I ended up unsubscribing from like 80% of the subs I was in including everything that has a relevant community here. That's really helping me care less about what is going on there and I have been consistently interacting more on here than there for a week now.

alottachairs,
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Plus, everyone has been so nice. Admittedly I have not explored too much further beyond Beehaw.

purpledonkey,

Word up, but it's still the beginning of this overall transition, it'll get better (hopefully within the next weeks). People just need to vent their frustrations. I just hope it doesn't become like VOAT.

xtremeownage,

Honestly, I really like the idea of when somebody googles reddit, and they start seeing all of the lemmy posts popping up instead.

dadbod,

Bruh seriously, I'm glad the community is growing and have been waiting for a good enough reason to leave Reddit, but half the posts here about how we're so much better than Reddit and Reddit sucks. I came here to lurk original and non-bot content, not to pat each other's backs

worfamerryman,

Yeah, totally. It’s a place to vent and others will come here and see all the crap Reddit is doing.

Mastodon was on about Twitter for like a month before people stopped caring about it.

Plus, I need to get my drama dose from somewhere.

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