Hexbear federation megathread

Hey folks

I have been receiving a lot of messages every single day about federation with hexbear. Some of our users are vehemently against it, others are in full support. The conversation does not seem to be dying down, rather, the volume of messages I receive about it seems to be increasing, so I am opening this public space where we can openly discuss the topic.

I am going to write a wall of text about my own thoughts on the situation, I’m sorry, but no tl;dr this time, and I ask anybody participating in this thread to first read through this post before commenting.

Before I go any further, I want to be clear that for anybody who participates here, it is required to focus on the quality of your posts. That means:

  • Be kind to each other, even if you disagree
  • Use arguments rather than calling people names
  • Realize that this is a divisive topic, so your comments should be even more thoughtful than usual

With that out of the way, there are a few things I want to cover.

On defederation in general

First of all, I am a firm believer that defederation must be reserved only for cases where all other methods have failed. If defederation is used liberally, then a small group of malicious users can effectively completely shut down the federated network, by simply creating the type of drama between instances which would inevitably result in defederation. In my view, federation is the biggest strength of Lemmy compared to any centralized discussion forum, so naturally I think maintaining federation by default is an important goal in general.

I am also a believer in the value of deplatforming hateful content, but I think defederation is not the best way to do this. Banning individual users, banning communities and establishing a culture of mutual support between mods and admins of different instances should be the first line of defense against such content. There are some further steps that can be taken before defederation as well, but these are not really documented anywhere (in order to prevent circumvention). The point is: for myself, defederation is the absolute last resort, only to be used when it is completely clear that other methods are ineffective.

Finally, I am wary of creating a false expectation among lemm.ee users that lemm.ee admins endorse all users and communities and content on instances we are federated with. Here at lemm.ee, we use a blocklist for federation, which means our default apporach is to federate with all new instances. We do not have the resources (manpower, skills and knowledge) necessary to pass judgement on all instances which exist out there, as a result, users on lemm.ee are expected to curate their own content to quite a high degree. In addition to downvoting and/or reporting as necessary, individual lemm.ee users are also able to block specific users and communities, and the ability to block entire instances is coming very soon as well.

Having said all that, in a situation where all other methods do indeed fail, defederation is not out of the question. Making such a call is up to the discretion of lemm.ee admins, and doing it as a last resort is completely in line with our federation policy.

Regarding hexbear

Hexbear is an established Lemmy instance, focused on many flavors of leftism. They have quite a large userbase who are very active on Lemmy (often so active that they leave the impression brigading all popular Lemmy posts). One important thing to note is that while some forms of bigotry seem to be quite accepted by many hexbear users (but seemingly not by mods - more on that below), they at least are very protective of LGBT rights (and yes, I am quite certain that they are not just pretending to do this, as many users seem to believe). Additionally, while I have noticed quite high quality posts from hexbear users, there are also several users there who seem to really enjoy trolling and baiting (very reminiscent of 4chan-type “for the lulz” posting), and it’s important to note that this kind of posting is in general allowed on hexbear itself.

The reason this whole topic is important to so many people right now (despite hexbear being a relatively old instance), is that hexbear only recently enabled federation. A combination of their volume of posts, their strong convictions, the excitement about federation, and the aforementioned trolling has made them very visible to almost all Lemmy users, and this has sparked discussions about the value of federation with hexbear on a lot of Lemmy instances.

My own experience with hexbear

I want to write down my own experience with interacting with hexbear users, mods, and admins over the past few days. I believe this experience will highlight why I am hesitant to advocate for immediate full defederation from hexbear at this point in time, and am for now still more in favor of taking action on a more individual user basis. Please read and see how you feel about the situation afterwards.

Background

My first real contact with hexbear users was in the comments section of a post in this meta community requesting defederation from hexbear by @glimpythegoblin. That post is now locked, because several hexbear users very quickly started doing the aforementioned “for the lulz” type spamming of meme images in the comments (these are actually just emojis, but they are rendered as full-size images on all instances other than the source instance, due to a current Lemmy bug).

I did not want to take further actions in that thread in general (for archival purposes), but I did take one action, which in retrospect was a mistake: I removed a comment which contained the hammer and sickle symbol. I ignorantly associated this symbolism with Kremlin propaganda, and the atrocities my own people suffered at the hands of the soviet union during the previous century. Many users (including hexbear users) correctly (and politely) pointed out to me in DMs that the symbol has a much broader use than just as the symbol of the USSR, and people elsewhere in the world may not associate it with the USSR at all. I am grateful for users who pointed this out to me without resorting to personal attacks.

Let me be clear here: while I do not have anything against leftism or communist ideas in general (in fact in today’s world, I think discussion of such ideas is quite necessary), Kremlin propaganda has no place on lemm.ee. Any dehumanizing talking points of the Kremlin on lemm.ee are treated as any other bigotry, and if communist symbolism is used in context of Kremlin propaganda (that is the context in which I have been exposed to it throughout my whole life), then it will still be removed. But there is no blanket ban on communist symbolism in general on lemm.ee, and discussing and advocating for leftist and communist topics (as distinct from the imperialist and dehumanizing policies of the Kremlin) is certainly allowed on lemm.ee.

Hexbear user response

Coming back to the events of the past few days: soon after my removal of the comment containing the symbol from the meta thread, two posts popped up on hexbear. One was focused on insulting and spreading lies about me personally. Another was focused on diminishing the horrors of the soviet occupation in my country. In the comments under both of these posts (and in a few other threads on hexbear), I noticed some seriously disturbing bigotry against my people. There were comments which reflected the anti-Estonian propaganda of the current Russian state, things like:

  • Suggesting that my people has no right to exist
  • Stating that my people (and other Baltic nations) are subhuman
  • Claiming that anybody critical of both nazi and soviet occupations is themselves a nazi and a holocaust denier

I expect to hear such statements from the Russian state - here in Estonia, we are subjected to this and other kinds of bigotry constantly from Russian media - but to see it spread openly in non-Russian channels is extremely disturbing. Such bigotry is completely against lemm.ee rules in general. Additionally, my identity is public information, because I feel it’s important for the integrity of lemm.ee that I don’t hide behind anonymity. Considering this, I’m sure you can understand why I am very worried about my own safety when people leave comments in many unrelated threads (where my original posts are not even visible), baselessly calling me a nazi and a holocaust denier.

Note that the goal of this post is not to start a new debate in the comments about the the repressions of the soviet union in Estonia or other occupied territories, but if the topic interests any users, I can recommend the 2006 documentary The Singing Revolution (imdb). The trailer is a bit cheesy, but the actual film contains lots of historical footage from the soviet occupation, and also many interviews with people who experienced it, who share stories which are deeply familiar to all Estonians. If anybody is interested in further discussion, then I suggest making a post about it in the Estonian community here: !eesti.

Hexbear admin response

After the above events had played out, I reached out to hexbear admins for clarification on their moderation policies and how they handle such cases. I was actually very happy with their response:

  1. They immediately removed the personal attacks and dehumanizing comments containing Kremlin propaganda from Hexbear, and assured me that such content is always handled by mods
  2. They told me that while there are all kinds of leftists on hexbear, Russian disinformation is generally either refuted in comments or removed by mods
  3. They implemented some additional rules on hexbear to try and reduce the trolling experienced by many other instances, including ours: hexbear.net/post/352119
My personal take-aways

Let me play the devil’s advocate here and employ some “self-whataboutism”: among all users that have been banned on lemm.ee for bigotry, the majority were actually not users from other instances, and in fact people with lemm.ee accounts. If we judge any larger instance only by bigoted posts that some of its users make, then we might as well declare all instances as cesspools and close down Lemmy completely. I believe it’s far more useful to judge instances based on moderation in response to such content. Just as we remove bigoted content from lemm.ee, I have also witnessed bigoted content being removed from hexbear.

At the same time, I am aware of some internal conflict between hexbear users over the more strict moderation they are now starting to employ, and I am definitely keeping an eye on that situation and how admins handle it.

I am also still quite worried about the amount of distinct users on hexbear who have posted Kremlin propaganda. I so far don’t have reason to believe that these users are employed by the Russian state, but the fact that they are spreading the same hateful content which can be seen on Russian television seems problematic to say the least, and it remains to be seen if moderators can truly keep up with such content.

Where thing stand right now

I am not convinced that we are currently at a point where the “last resort” of defederation is necessary. This is based on the presumption that our moderation workload at lemm.ee will not get out of hand just due to users from that particular instance. My current expectation is that as the excitement of federation calms down (and as new rules on hexbear go into effect), the currently relatively high volume of low effort trolling will be replaced by more thoughtful posts. If this is not the case then we will certainly need to re-evaluate things.

Additionally, nothing is changing about our own rules regarding bigotry. Especially relevant in the context of Kremlin propaganda, I want to say that dehumanizing anybody is not allowed on lemm.ee (hopefully I do not have to spell it out, but this of course includes Ukrainians, LGBT folks, and others that the Kremlin despises), and action will be taken against any users who do this, regardless of what instance they are posting from.

Finally, I am very interested to hear thoughts and responses from our own users. I am super grateful to anybody who actually took the time to read through this massive dump of my own thoughts, and I am very interested to get a proper understanding of how our users feel about what I’ve written here. Please share any thoughts in the comments.

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  • Hawk,

    From my experience, I’ve seen very few reasonable comments from hexbear members.

    Sure, other instances have bad actors, but it seems especially bad on hexbear.

    I don’t even think it’s a matter of ideology or worldview. It’s the absurd amount of conflict, trolling and generally “a bad time” they’re bringing to the fediverse.

    If the instance can handle their toxic user base, I don’t see a problem in federation. But until then I think defederation is the best move.

    This is my personal experience with hexbear though. Everybody is free to express their ideology, but please let us do it in a mature and adult way.

    GarbageShoot,

    Everybody is free to express their ideology, but please let us do it in a mature and adult way.

    I would love if this was a consistent standard

    quindraco,

    If you think it’s unfounded calling hexbear members nazis, I don’t think you’ve ever been to a hexbear thread. The most recent hexbear post I encountered was explicitly anti-democracy, which was only atypical in that usually hexbearians skip the explicit labeling and jump right in.

    I genuinely invite you to try and find a single hexbearian who supports the right of trans people, cis people, or both to autonomy, i.e. voting. Try it. Try to find one that isn’t all-in on being pro-dictatorship.

    wintermute_oregon,

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  • Pseudoplatanus22,

    We’ll defend Stalin, but not specifically for his record on Gay rights. It’s what we call Critical Support. Likewise with our support of Russia, although it’s important to understand why we have come to this consensus. This post gives a broad overview of our views on the Russo-Ukrainian war, but to truly understand our worldview would take years of immersion not only in our space, but other leftist spaces, and would require some reading. I’d recommend State and Revolution and Imperialism: The Highest Stage of Capitalism by Lenin to start with, as I’m that way inclined, though others would point you in different directions. Ultimately however, it all comes back to Marx’s Capital.

    420blazeit69,

    From many Hexbear threads on the topic of LGBT rights in the Soviet Union (and Warsaw Pact countries), here’s my understanding:

    • The pre-Soviet Russian Empire criminalized homosexuality.
    • The first Soviet constitution “decriminalized” it in the sense that it wiped away the laws of the old Empire and instituted new ones that did not include criminalizing homosexuality. I don’t personally think (and I think this is the Hexbear consensus) that was an intentional choice; it probably just got left out because it wasn’t a priority in the midst of a revolution, civil war/invasion by a half dozen capitalist powers, and the monumental task of building a modern state (and the first socialist state) out of the ashes of WWI and late-feudal Russia. Note that plenty of legal scholars would disagree on the theory that legislative bodies write laws (or don’t) very deliberately.
    • Stalin re-criminalized homosexuality. Zero people on Hexbear support that, and I’m not aware of any existing socialist state that does, either (the CPC line on Stalin, for instance, is “70% good, 30% bad”).
    • In the 80s, some Warsaw Pact countries (possibly just East Germany) were on par with or ahead of the West on LGBT rights, policies that came to an end with the dissolution of the USSR.
    • Post-Soviet Russia is a capitalist state likely more corrupt and undemocratic than even the U.S., and I’ve seen no Hexbear user defend it, much less its reprehensible stances on LGBT rights. What you will see, however, is discussion of Russia’s actual intentions (not propaganda like “Putin is a mustache-twirling villain who does bad things for no reason”) and its role as a counterweight to NATO hegemony.

    It’s also important to consider the USSR’s stance on LGBT rights in context of the rest of the world – they were still wrong to oppress LGBT people, but no one else was doing much better, which indicates those bad policies were not some unique aspect of socialism. Cuba, for instance, just passed a Family Code that has LGBT protections far ahead of anything the U.S. has at a national scale, and the public support programs of socialist countries (housing, education, labor protections, etc.) are significant benefits for any marginalized community even if not expressly intended as such.

    wintermute_oregon,

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  • 420blazeit69,

    BTW thank you for the civil conversation.

    spoilerrat-salute-2 avoheart

    The “it is fair to say that the USSR stance was no different than the stance of the United States during the same time” stance would get a lot of agreement on Hexbear. We’ll go to bat for the many good things the USSR did, but we’re more than happy to criticize it (or China, or Cuba, etc.) where appropriate. One of the most-cited books on Hexbear – Blackshirts and Reds by Michael Parenti (big recommend, by the way) – has at least a whole chapter (maybe even a whole section, can’t remember) on criticisms of the USSR.

    Super jealous you’ve been to Cuba – hope I can go one day!

    GarbageShoot,

    Stalin being personally homophobic and supporting homophobic legislation is bad and absolutely true (unlike many characterizations of him and others), but taking him as a historical figure and considering things like leading the liberation of the death camps and destruction of Nazi Germany, along with an overall massive increase in the Soviet quality of life and doing other things like famine relief in India and supporting communists around the world, we must recognize him as a historically progressive figure.

    wintermute_oregon,

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  • GarbageShoot,

    It’s a little jarring to see a conservative approve of my view of Stalin’s progressivism, so I suppose you deserve credit for that.

    It can be very difficult to exercise freedom when the environment you live in is entirely owned by other parties, private and public.

    wintermute_oregon,

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  • GarbageShoot,

    Why do you call yourself a conservative then?

    While Stalin did bad things, he did good things. Same with Hitler

    I don’t think the ecological policy was particularly worth the other elements

    Pseudoplatanus22,

    What are you talking about? It’s the most explicitly pro-trans space I’ve ever seen. If your idea of autonomy is restricted to voting, that’s your problem. We believe in actual democracy, as in the voice of the people. Can you point me to a democratic system you aspire to which doesn’t ultimately exist to look after the interests of capital? That’s the problem we have with what you call democracy. The Nazis were promoted into power by establishment politicians to do exactly the same thing: protect the interests of capital by eradicating communists and trade unionists. The mass murder of Jews, Roma, LGBT people, and many other groups, was neither here nor there to the industrialists who backed the Nazis.

    We will always react negatively to being called Nazis, because it’s so far from the truth as to be utterly laughable, if it weren’t so offensive to the members of our community who would have been oppressed by the Nazis, and who often are oppressed by modern bourgeois liberal democracies.

    thoro,

    Hey. Stop it.

    Responding to accusations of being Nazis while literally being communists shows your brigading, debate provoking intentions.

    brain_in_a_box,

    Brigading? Mate, we’re federated; this post is on our feed.

    thoro,

    I know. I’m being sarcastic.

    brain_in_a_box,

    Ah, my mistake.

    Pringles,

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  • oregoncom,
    @oregoncom@hexbear.net avatar

    You know the guy who wrote the lemmy software is a tankie right? clueless redditors like you should go back there if you hate us so much lmao.

    Pringles,

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  • Staines,

    Everyone that disagrees with you is a child? Sounds like the kind of thing a bot would say.

    oregoncom,
    @oregoncom@hexbear.net avatar

    Wow you’re so mature you go around saying the r-slur. What are you? a middle schooler from 2011? The lack of self awareness your kind has is really something. Real adult of you to get mad over little pictures on a web forum.

    Rentlar,

    Lemmy.ca is already defederated, and while I’m not against federating, tell the Hexbear peeps to chill with their emoji usage on Lemmy servers, please?

    Azzu,

    I really don’t think we should be policing speech in that way. If one doesn’t like it, there’s ublock rules that remove inline images from certain hosts, like hexbear.net.

    Rentlar,

    I get what you’re saying and I don’t think there should be a hard and fast rule across a server to ban hexbear image macros. But depending on community it is low-effort and not-conducive to discussion.

    😂

    🤔

    😈

    🤑

    🤣

    😡

    🤡

    🐷

    On a discussion post (like this one for example), how is anyone not on Hexbear supposed to engage with a thread resembling something like the above? (with the way the images display on Lemmy, many hexbear comments even containing text look like this).

    It really suffocates the conversation which is why it’s my sugeestion that hexbear users use the images more sparingly.

    Historical_General,

    It’s a bug, that I hope will get fixed soon.

    Rentlar,

    Hope so, but it really amplified the trolli-ness of those users to another level…

    Historical_General,

    Yeah, I actually am on board with them politically, but the shock images keep me away from daily browsing. I go back every week or so to read their long posts to learn something new. And this is a happy balance so far.

    Once they get emoji sized I’ll be even happier.

    albertsy2,

    We should defederate from them.

    WittyProfileName2, (edited )
    @WittyProfileName2@hexbear.net avatar

    Hexbear user here so I’ve no say in whether you defed or not.

    Just wanted to say, I appreciate how level headed you’ve been in this post and with defederation as a whole even though your previous interaction with Hexbear users has made you the target of comments that were heated (to say the least).

    pythonoob,

    I appreciate your posting that. I think we can be friendly with each other. I think we just speak two different languages and that tends to bread anger and frustration which cause people to lash out.

    WittyProfileName2,
    @WittyProfileName2@hexbear.net avatar

    Thank you.

    At the risk of sounding optimistic, the culture shock of our respective instances federating feels like it’s starting to die down now and folks can finally get on with more respectful discussion.

    pythonoob,

    I hope you’re right. Drama is annoying lol

    Wahots,
    @Wahots@pawb.social avatar

    My instance defederated from them without much explanation. My first experience with their users was quite negative, super sketchy posts with WW2 type stuff in the comments on an unrelated post. Generally, I try to avoid culture war type stuff, but the few shocking things I’ve seen, have unfortunately been mostly coming from that instance. Couple of aussie and shit just works ones too, but the majority from the aforementioned one.

    alcoholicorn,
    Wahots,
    @Wahots@pawb.social avatar

    Hmmm. Perhaps. I can’t keep up with the amount of mod actions. I suppose things will cool and crystallize as lemmy matures.

    LeateWonceslace,

    I want to defederate from them. The overwhelming majority of interactions I’ve had with Hexbear users has been profoundly negative, and the user base’s politics are, by-and-large chauvinistic and otherwise usually abhorrent. Weird shit like claiming that even trans-friendly spaces on most of lemmy are less trans-friendly than Hexbear.net. Furthermore, every comment out of the website I’ve seen on The War in Ukraine has been Russia-Sympathetic, which suggests that there’s a strong pro-Russia sentiment running through the user base. I don’t want anything to do with them.

    Astroturfed,

    There’s a ton of braindead tanky stuff over there. Somehow they still view Russia as worth supporting due to the former “communist” status of the USSR. We’re talking about the same people who support China for being Communist when it’s a neo fascist capitalist economy though. So who knows what kind of twisted logic flys with them.

    gnuhaut,

    No communist thinks that Russia is still communist. The critical support for Russia among some communists (me included) has to do with them fighting western imperial expansion/domination, and that Russia winning (or rather: not losing) would weaken the US empire and give breathing room to socialist and anti-colonial movements worldwide, since the US empire is the no. 1 threat to those movements. If US/EU supremacy on the international stage were broken, the US would have a much harder time isolating, toppling, or sanctioning socialist or anti-imperialist governments. If Russia loses and gets broken up or economically ruined, that would be proof of imperial power and scare other countries into caving to western demands. These countries would also lose Russia as a potential ally and trade partner.

    The other major interpretation among Marxists (and there’s been a lot of debate about this) is that both sides are imperialist, and the correct stance in this conflict is revolutionary defeatism (as Lenin preached in Czarist Russia, or Rosa Luxembourg did in Germany during WW1). In this logic everybody need to fight and overthrow their own bourgeois governments and stop the war (i.e. Russian workers should undermine the Russian government, while Americans need to fight the US government), since the working classes of those countries shouldn’t fight each other, but rather fight the capitalists in their own countries. Slogan: No war but class war.

    spiderplant,

    50% of their mod team is trans and they are one of the few instances with pronouns built in to it. They have a good argument that of the biggest instances they are the most trans friendly. Can’t speak for smaller instances or individual communities though.

    I’ve mostly seen anti war takes from them which IMO is much better than all the pro war news and views in the lib instances. Most leftists are anti Russia since its a capitilaist, imerialist, oligarchal shit hole, but they also are anti US and NATO for similar reasons.

    N0_Varak,

    I don’t see what being trans has to do with their shitty takes and general tankie-ness

    GarbageShoot,

    Other user called them “chauvinist”, which gets used as basically another word for “reactionary”

    blackn1ght, (edited )

    I’ve mostly seen anti war takes from them

    They’re highly critical of Ukraine and keep blaming them for the bloodshed. They’ll say Ukraine needs to surrender to stop needless deaths, but either they’re completely naïve and think Russia would instantly stop fighting forever, or they’re quite happy for Ukraine and it’s culture to cease to exist. They’ll never directly come out and say they support Russia, but their criticisms against either countries are one sided against Ukraine, and it’s extremely rare they’ll say anything about Russia.

    IMO is much better than all the pro war news and views in the lib instances

    I’ve not seen any “pro war news”. I see news on the war, but I doubt there’s many people who want the war. People just want Russia to leave Ukraine more than anything.

    Most leftists are anti Russia since its a capitilaist, imerialist, oligarchal shit hole, but they also are anti US and NATO for similar reasons.

    As I mentioned above, it’s not balanced at all. You don’t see the same (if any at all) anger towards Russia as you do the US, Ukraine etc.

    50% of their mod team is trans and they are one of the few instances with pronouns built in to it. They have a good argument that of the biggest instances they are the most trans friendly. Can’t speak for smaller instances or individual communities though.

    It’s great that trans users have a space they feel at home and safe with. But it’s sad that they have to do that in the first place. Ideally they should be welcome on any instance and treated fairly just as anyone else but sadly that’s not reality. As much as Hexbear is brought up about defederating, toxic anti-trans, or any toxic discriminatory users should be put on a public ban list so people can choose to ban them.

    I’m not really for them to be defederated though, but I think it’s important to at least discuss it like OP has here, as it brings up behaviours that get brought to attention to their mods and highlights that many people feel that their behaviour can be seen as damaging to the wider Lemmy community.

    s0ykaf,
    @s0ykaf@hexbear.net avatar

    As I mentioned above, it’s not balanced at all. You don’t see the same (if any at all) anger towards Russia as you do the US, Ukraine etc.

    of course you don’t see it

    in my country alone america has 1) supported a military coup in the 60s, 2) fucked us over their loans in the 70s, causing hyperinflation that lasted into the 90s, 3) fucked us over through the IMF from the 90s to early 00s and 4) supported (as we now know) a soft coup in 2016 that ended up resulting in lula’s arrest and bolsonaro winning the election

    meanwhile russia has… existed in eurasia and helped us create BRICS??

    why would i hate russia more than america and its satellite states? even if putin is an asshole, an anticommunist piece of shit who was part of the group that destroyed the USSR, he just hasn’t done to us what american presidents have.

    and hexbear users in general, since they really are leftists (as in, anticapitalists of various flavors) are very much aware of what america and their puppets do to us in the 3rd world, while russia doesn’t really screw us over much at all and in fact tends to play an opposite geopolitical role. so why is it so surprising that the animosity towards the US is way more noticeable?

    spiderplant,

    The narrative is never as black and white as either US or Russian sources would have you believe.

    The Ukraine is publicly against any peace talks and the US arms industry is making bank off the war so the US puts very little pressure on the Ukraine to sue for peace.

    Russia claims that the US blocked early peace talks. Not sure if Russia would have gone to them in good faith but I guess we’ll never know.

    Any articles dehumanising Russians such as calling them orcs(this was everywhere) helps justify the continuation of the war. Any articles not calling for an immediate end to the war on humanitarian grounds should be considered propaganda for either side.

    I’d argue MSM is not balanced either in the opposite direction and shits on Russia enough that bexbears don’t need to join in. Countering the current narrative on anti war grounds or being anti US/NATO can be easily misunderstood as being pro Russia.

    Obviously I’m not saying pro Russia accounts don’t exist on hexbear but I don’t think its as big a thing as you think.

    On the trans thing, yeah it would be nice if they could exist everywhere without issues but I’ve seen plenty of transphobia coming from different instances including our own. Having a mod team that understands their struggle and protects them is worth a lot.

    MolotovHalfEmpty,
    @MolotovHalfEmpty@hexbear.net avatar

    Both sides in a war are responsible for bloodshed, but if there is a dominant view on Hexbear it’s that the biggest responsibility for the conflict lies with the US who created the modern Russian state, strung it along, then encircled it and escalated against all advice, backed the 2014 coup and the far right militias that carried out an 8 year civil war, continue fuelling the war for profit, and have sabotaged any attempt at peace talks. There are plenty of posts and even an official statement making this clear.

    blackn1ght,

    Well yeah, unfortunately when you’re in a war then bloodshed is unavoidable. But it’s not like they invited Russia to invade.

    dominant view on Hexbear it’s that the biggest responsibility for the conflict lies with the US who created the modern Russian state, strung it along, then encircled it and escalated against all advice

    I think their ideology is blinding them into creating such a narrative. Not saying the US doesn’t meddle in other countries but this is really far fetched and just assumes that Russia is blameless and just happens to doing exactly as what the US wants. I don’t think it’s that unrealistic that this is purely Putin on an imperialist conquest attempting to cement himself in history as a great Russian leader. Not everything is about the US. Sometimes other countries have their own agendas.

    then encircled it

    Not 100% sure what this means but I’m guessing it’s in regards to NATO? I don’t think the ex-soviet states needed any US meddling to convince them to join.

    MolotovHalfEmpty,
    @MolotovHalfEmpty@hexbear.net avatar

    But it’s not like they invited Russia to invade.

    That’s not the the case in any war and I’ve given a (admittedly very simple, broad strokes) overview of some of the material conditions that led to the war, even just in Ukraine - particularly the predominantly Russian speaking separatist regions wanting security guarantees after 8 years of being shelled by the Ukrainian coup government and terror attacks by neo-nazi militias that they state either couldn’t or wouldn’t reign in.

    I think their ideology is blinding them into creating such a narrative. Not saying the US doesn’t meddle in other countries but this is really far fetched and just assumes that Russia is blameless

    Hexbear doesn’t have a single ideology. It’s a left unity instance that had a broad range of anti-capitalist and anti-imperialist ideologies.

    Nothing I’ve stated is far fetched, but all documented fact that a cursory reading of post-soviet history would support but if you like and are interested I can provide you some sources and reading?

    No one on Hexbear thinks Russia is blameless. Views on Hexbear range from ‘this war is a travesty’ to ‘this war is a tragedy that could have been avoided by taking dozens of different decisions over the last two decades’. Again, I can give you some further examples and reading if you’re interested. But you claimed Hexbear users blamed Ukraine for the war and I said that “if there is a dominant view on Hexbear it’s that the biggest responsibility for the conflict lies with the US” for contributing most to the material conditions that eventually made a conflict like this sadly inevitable. But that doesn’t get Russia off the hook for also being a capitalist state also waging war and no one has stated that other countries don’t have their own agendas.

    Not 100% sure what this means but I’m guessing it’s in regards to NATO.

    Yes, NATO encirclement is part of it and was warned about by everyone from hawks like Henry Kissinger to former heads of NATO to Joe Biden himself before they went and did it anyway, but there’s also other aspects like the stationing of nuclear weapons, construction of new military bases, as well as coups, proxy wars, and funding destabilising groups on Russia’s borders.

    kneel_before_yakub,

    Maybe Ukraine shouldn’t have killed 10k Russian speakers in the donbass since 2014 and integrated Nazi militias into the army?

    AreaSIX,

    First you say “they’ll never directly come out and say they support Russia, but their criticisms against either countries are one sided against Ukraine, and it’s extremely rare they’ll say anything about Russia”

    But then you also write: “I’ve not seen any “pro war news”. I see news on the war, but I doubt there’s many people who want the war.”

    In this not pro-war news, but “news on the war” that you see, is their criticisms towards Russia maybe one-sided? Would it be fair to say that they’ll extremely rarely portray the US and Nato negatively in this war? Why is it that you do not view one-sided reporting from your side of the fence as being pro-war, characterizing it as just “news on the war” as if it’s just naturally reporting the facts? Do you not see how that’s hypocritical?

    Melina,
    @Melina@hexbear.net avatar
    Razp,

    I think we need to stay federated. This is not a kindergarten and people can chose what to read and what not.

    If we start de-federating every time someone gets offended and set precedent, we will end up de-federating from everything eventually because guess what: there is always someone getting offended for whatever reason. This is internet, grow up.

    The neutral stance is the main reason I joined this instance. The moment this changes - I am out.

    littlecolt,

    Let me be honest: every hexbear user I have taken note of has had a massive chip on their shoulder. They want to be targets of hate. They are trolling. If theres been any besides them, I haven’t noticed. It’s not even agreeing or disagreeing with anything any particular hexbear has said. It’s just the attitude. Childish. Trolling. I am not impressed.

    Edit: in short I would say defederate if you want. Nothing of value would be lost.

    oregoncom,
    @oregoncom@hexbear.net avatar

    A brony calling other people childish is uhhhh… something.

    alcoholicorn,

    Is being an asshole back to the guy really productive, here or in general?

    oregoncom,
    @oregoncom@hexbear.net avatar

    People with no self awareness need to be made fun of. It’s the only way they’ll learn. I’m doing him a service.

    alcoholicorn,

    This ain’t it chief

    Jok3r,

    So hexbear of you. People who think differently should be made fun of. Or dunked on I think you guys call it

    Ram_The_Manparts,
    @Ram_The_Manparts@hexbear.net avatar

    Several users from hexbear have been calling out the person you’re replying to.

    Believe it or not, we’re not a hivemind.

    oregoncom,
    @oregoncom@hexbear.net avatar

    All you’ve been doing is complaining about our very presence in this post. Not even specific things we said, just that we think differently and are also here in the same post as you. This is comedy.

    Jok3r,

    Oh I made up my mind about HB a long time ago. No need to go in detail here. You keep doing you!

    oregoncom,
    @oregoncom@hexbear.net avatar

    This is the most pathetic attempt at a comeback ever. Actual word salad.

    very_poggers_gay,

    maybe about politics but not about a tv show or harmless interest 🤝

    littlecolt,

    Well, I was drunk when I posted the above. No filter. It’s ironic, I was generalizing up there pretty badly, and your response is to generalize back about something completely unrelated.

    I know a lot of bronies, and most of them are plenty mature, not childish. I wonder if the same can be said of Hexbear users.

    Those with no self awareness should really think before posting… Though I suppose that is not your strong suit.

    oregoncom,
    @oregoncom@hexbear.net avatar

    officer I was drunk when I ran over that toddler

    It’s a children’s show, for children. Bronies bullied the actual children the show was for out of the fandom for that show. You deserve the contempt for being a Brony.

    littlecolt,

    Lol you really know nothing but what people who also hate bronies have told you. Fantastic.

    oregoncom,
    @oregoncom@hexbear.net avatar

    www.youtube.com/watch?v=4fVOF2PiHnc

    From one of your “horse-famous” celebrities.

    littlecolt,

    Lol before clicking the link, I said “Oh, is it gonna be that Jenny Nicholson video?”

    Wham! It sure is. You’re cute.

    oregoncom,
    @oregoncom@hexbear.net avatar

    What’s wrong with jenny nicholson?

    littlecolt,

    You know, that is actually an excellent question. So here’s the thing, overall I think she is pretty great. She has entertained me through the years with plenty of content, and she honestly seems pretty cool. The problem is this video, in particular. Now, you might say “oh, you’re just mad because she’s saying stuff you don’t like” and sure, maybe. I’m barely into the show anymore, but I do interact with a segment of the fandom still. Some of my best friends. Anyway, this video really came out of left field. It was so wild to see it. I disagree with a lot of what she says here. She’s entitled to her opinion, but I feel like she’s had a bit of a warped view of the fandom, from above it as a bit of a fandom celebrity. The video is her views, and it’s pretty badly biased on a lot of stuff.

    I just wonder why she felt the need to burn the bridge, so to speak. The fandom that adored her, and still adores her work. Friendship is Witchcraft is brilliant, really. Just such a weird direction to go.

    oregoncom,
    @oregoncom@hexbear.net avatar

    You know what I’m genuinely curious now. What did she say that was untrue? Can you give specifics?

    littlecolt,

    I’d have to watch the whole video again to pick out specifics, something I’m not sure I want to do just to continue a conversation with someone who’s been antagonizing me. Sorry.

    Ram_The_Manparts,
    @Ram_The_Manparts@hexbear.net avatar

    This isn’t cool dude. Chill out.

    Azzu,

    I had an entirely pleasant interaction when I brought up exactly what you did just now, but I worded it not quite as negatively as you did, and I didn’t generalize as much.

    Every instance has people of the kind you just described. Could there be a larger percentage of those on hexbear? Sure, but I reckon not by incredibly much. Saying “nothing of value would be lost” is incredibly disrespectful to the majority of people that are not like this, probably only lurking. Of course you notice the negative interactions immediately and they stay in your mind, and if you don’t reattempt civility with other people, and instead immediately come from a place with anger about these negative interactions, then it’s just going to get self-reinforcingly worse and worse.

    It’s quite hard to see the person behind the username, the person behind the group. It’s much easier to just say “all people from hexbear are trolls and childish and nothing of value”, while that is obviously untrue, it’s not all, probably not even most, and starting with “all” just immediately instills a “us vs them” tribalism mentality which inevitably leads to more negative behavior.

    littlecolt,

    I admit, I was drunk last night and I posted that off the cuff. It’s true, there are probably fine users on Hexbear. I think that perhaps if defed does occur, the users who want to genuinely participate might come make alt accounts on other instances.

    Flaps,

    ‘They want to be targets of hate’ is pretty yikes when a lot of people in the community are or have been, ya know, actual targets of hate IRL dawg

    littlecolt,

    What other reason is there to troll but to make others mad and be hated?

    oregoncom,
    @oregoncom@hexbear.net avatar

    What other reason is there for you to be a brony other than because you want people to feel disgust towards you?

    Hexagons,

    Dude, uncalled for. Liking my little pony isn’t disgusting. Fucking chill out

    Flaps,

    Idk about your experience. Having read other comments I regret that someone is making fun of you for liking my little pony, as you might have noticed a lot of people of hexbear have stepped in to call that person out. I’ve never met a brony but to Judge people based on their hobbies is just stupid, I’m sure there are plenty of nice people who also happen to like my little pony. I’ve also read that your insulting previous comment was made while drunk. I don’t care about that.

    Would it be possible to give a link to the trolling? Just so I know where you’re coming from

    littlecolt,

    Replying again. Yeah, I will have to keep my eye open. Going back in my inbox, I see some of the trolling that was replies to me, and they are all just removed by mod now.

    littlecolt,

    I did notice that, and those users are being reasonable at least. I appreciate the defense, though I don’t think that particular user is going to change his opinion very much.

    I think the lesson here is to not paint with broad strokes. However, I will be sure to link you what I see, as I am pretty sure I will see more. I’ll bookmark this.

    On the subject of defederation: My statement was rather harsh. I will say again that I was drunk. I am also basically a nobody and as I put on many of my online profiles, my opinions should probably not be emulated. I will say this, though, that I have noticed oftentimes when I see obvious trolling, it is often Hexbear and Lemmygrad users. Does this mean all Hexbears are trolls? No. However, it does mean that perhaps the troll subset is larger and/or louder there, and it may also indicate that that subset of users has settled upon using Hexbear as their home for one reason or another.

    Aninjanameddaryll,
    @Aninjanameddaryll@sopuli.xyz avatar

    https://sopuli.xyz/pictrs/image/c7339c62-ed06-4b18-9c07-042a06aee412.jpeg

    FWIW, that’s someone directly saying that their goal is to go out and proselytize.

    spiderplant,

    You coming to this instance and trying to influence our opinion is no different than what you are complaining about.

    Everyone has their biases and agendas when writing posts or comments and to be expected to be protected from views that don’t match you own is not really compatible with the federated model.

    barsoap,

    sopuli.xyz is a Finnish instance. lemm.ee is Estonian. The primary difference thus is that lemm.ee is drunk sopuli.xyz which makes perfect sense as sopuli.xyz is black-out drunk lemm.ee.

    Historical_General,

    Your votes read: 9/11

    Aninjanameddaryll,
    @Aninjanameddaryll@sopuli.xyz avatar

    Influence your opinion? Dude, I’m just sharing info. Nothing else

    spiderplant,

    At least own it dude

    You are an outsider to this instance and the info you chose to share clearly tries to paint hexbears in a bad light. You gave no counter to that narrative such as a screen shot of good discussion that is happening in this post.

    I’ve believe you should be able to post on our instance and will not call to defederate from your instance because I disagree with you. I also don’t expect everyone to post balanced arguments because I don’t more often than not. I will however call people out for hypocrisy.

    TalkingCat,

    I think they’re alright. I don’t think they’re brigading, it may feel that way because leftists are used to discussing ideas, it’s done all the time between the different branches, so they go full debatelord when they find easy pickings, users not used to their party line getting challenged with competence and end up resorting to name calling and X-badisms.

    Jok3r,

    There is an 800 comments difference when you look at this thread from an instance that is defederated with them.

    JamesConeZone,
    @JamesConeZone@hexbear.net avatar

    We have a 20k user base, and we are the most active instance on Lemmy. This post popped up on my all screen just like everyone else’s.

    LifeInMultipleChoice,

    That part it sounds as if they get. I believe what they are saying is if you have an instance of 1,000 users that is sick of rick and morty, that gets federated with a instance of 20,000 users that really love rick and morty, now their instance sees 20,000 active users posting rick and morty memes and jokes in every comment thread. Thats where the whole “they brigade” concept comes from. The 20k users will push their hivemind onto the 1,000 until they either stop logging in or block that instance from their user. Which now every comment thread says 300 comments but when they open it actually has less than 15.

    420blazeit69,

    What is the purpose of forums if not to talk to each other? Activity is a good thing, especially in the infancy of the fediverse.

    robot_dog_with_gun,

    i don’t have anything in particular to add, I just want to repeat that clicking on “all” isn’t brigading.

    WhyDoesntThisThingWork,

    Already commented once but wanted to add: After my interactions with hexbear and the aggressive and disproportionate way they responded, I was legitimately left feeling my personal irl safety could be in danger.

    Lemmy in general and Lemm.ee specifically should not be a place where users are left feeling like that over innocuous statements or opinions.

    Defederate.

    hrosts,

    The same way as with tolerating open fascists, just letting them be around as long as they’re “nice” will give them ample opportunity to spread their propaganda in a more covert way. Some things will look innocuous enough and won’t be cleaned up, other will create drama on being moderated, so the mods might have harder time deciding. This won’t break their echo chamber, as such things existed even in the ever-open reddit. Just cut them off, it will be better both for the communists around, and for the “non-ideological” crowd.

    spiderplant,

    The non ideological crown doesn’t exist. Being middle of the road centrist is ideological. Political apathy and voter abstention is ideological. I don’t want to create an echo chamber here by banning leftist spaces and allow liberal and right wing views to go unchallenged.

    hrosts,

    The non ideological crown doesn’t exist.

    I’m not the first day in this, which is why I’ve put it in scare quotes. And I think exposing unwitting apathetic liberals to tankies is bad. Not platforming fascists is good, defederating from far-right and tankie instances empowers the left.

    The modern leftist discourse is full of anti-Western sentiment. Which is good and deserved, but this also means there’s a larger susceptibility towards fascist propaganda, when this propaganda is directed against the hegemon. In addition to that, the thalassocratic nature of the American empire makes most leftist much less heuristically equipped to tackle issues of differently structured empires. These factors bolster development of tankie sentiment, ranging from genuine leftists supporting fascism to genuine fascists who love left-sounding rhetoric.

    So if you’re coddling fascists in your community, don’t cry suppression when anti-fascists stop associating with you as well. You can just drop the community which engages in this and move elsewhere. If you’re still okay with that, then other people’s concerns about you were justified.

    spiderplant,

    Yeah Ithinks we fundamentally disagree with what hexbear is. I believe it to be a broad left instance, and yes that include tankies. I do not believe tankies make up even close to the majority of hexbear. I also believe that hexbear is the left on Lemmy and to cut ourselves off from them alienates all the leftists(in the anticapitalist meaning) on this instance.

    I consider myself an anarchist so i disagree with tankies but I also disagree with equating tankies with fashists. It’s a false equivalence that ignores their ideological differences.

    oregoncom,
    @oregoncom@hexbear.net avatar

    ever-open reddit.

    lol, lmao even.

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