@shibao It helps to realize that generally companies will cut you loose if it in their best interests. Be professional but loyalty won't be coming from their side.
On their end they may simply not be able to offer what you're asking for. Work you want may not fit into their business plans or only so many people can work on it. Roles are limited so you may not be able to move up. There are also budgets so maybe they don't offer as big of a raise as you want.
If you aren't happy there is no shame in looking for a new company. Just line something up before you quit.
If you're burning out vacations can help but having strategies to leave work at work and maintain a life outside of work is important.