It sucks that several women have been abusive to you. (Serious.)
You'll only find what you are looking for.
It's interesting how you see misogyny as "inevitable backlash" -- but you can't see how coming at a woman with these negative views about women generally is also producing a reaction. No, that's just how women "are."
And when the next woman tell you off you can say "see it happened again."
War? IDK, all I wanted was to play on the chess team.