@espyeen@ajsadauskas@chad@Gargron@mike And here's the social in social media. It is more complex than email, or even instant messengers, in that the communications are more public. So it's far more a community issue when inevitable conflicts occur.
Having said that, my Fediverse experience so far has been completely unproblematic, maybe just luck, or down to a stable instance? I guess you don't know what you don't know.