@stux If you starting throwing around accusations, you need receipts. Otherwise people will assume you're making things up.
This is concerning to me both as a user and as a business associate because it currently appears as you've defederated on a whim, slept on it, and then refederated after you regretted it in the morning. You have to make your case that there was good reason to do so beyond the summary you've provided because defederation is the nuclear option