ned, (edited )
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Just thinking about how wrong the phrase is, "You have to earn respect".

No, you have to earn disrespect. As a human being, I'm naturally going to respect you if I don't know you. It's when you earn my disrespect, that I'll stop showing respect.

I give people respect freely, until they prove to me that they don't deserve it.

boredzo,
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@ned Part of this is a distinction articulated awhile back on Tumblr:

ned,
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@boredzo I feel that!

brouhaha,
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@ned There's a baseline level of respect that I'll afford everyone, unless and until they prove that they don't deserve it. But there's also additional respect that they can earn through their actions.

designatednerd,
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@ned @aijaz yes. I generally give people a lot of rope but once you’re on my shit list, you tend to stay there.

airwhale,
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@ned @inthehands

Agree. People should be assumed to be awesome until they prove themselves to be otherwise.

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