inquiline,
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Got called "unseemly and childishly ridiculous" by a man in my mentions today, how's your Mastodon going

carrideen,
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@inquiline One of the things I'm working hard on with my first-year students is how to disagree with someone without calling them "ridiculous," "childish," or "insane." Is this what the internet did to us? It's appalling.

inquiline,
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@carrideen What do you collectively come up with as better?

I think I need to pin this essay somewhere: https://www.lrb.co.uk/the-paper/v36/n06/mary-beard/the-public-voice-of-women

carrideen,
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@inquiline I don't think it's just men doing it, but it's almost always women receiving it. I want to bring back good old vanilla disagreement. One doesn't need to denounce or incite violence against or discredit the rationality of another person to have a different idea, right? In my class, an essay we read brought up UBI as an off-handed example of something, and suddenly my students are accusing the author of madness, infantilism, raving delusions. You just disagree. He's not ill.

inquiline,
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@carrideen Yep, how it lands on people whose rationality can not be presumed is the issue. (As well as ableism, and those are ofc related)

Karstan,
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@inquiline @SRLevine lol, I had to go look this up and sure enough it was an asshole I'd muted a few months ago for doing that same shit.

inquiline,
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@Karstan @SRLevine I actually LOVE that search worked well enough for you to find him, this is amazing in and of itself

wendinoakland,
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@inquiline Saw this yesterday and seethed for (with?) you, but wanted to know if you blocked or reported the mothrfckr. Anyway, goddamn those assholes. ♥️

inquiline,
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@wendinoakland I think people eventually started ignoring him and yes blocked going forward for sure. POS, tho.

paninid,
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@inquiline
but did you use the words Boomer or Millennial, cuz, whoo boy…

inquiline,
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@paninid I eventually used the word “asshole”… but I was driven to it

inquiline,
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Pleased to report that this lovely person, in an argument with another person (still in my mentions) today, said to that person:

"You are very smart and I'm sure you are an excellent technical debater....I see from your posts that you are a thoughtful person, and I hope you can find ways to channel that into more productive conversations than the one you are trying to guide us into here"

Guess this other person's gender, anyone? 🙄

MichaelTBacon,
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@inquiline

Given that my profile photo marks me pretty clearly as a white dude, I've been 'splained to in the replies an absurd amount lately. (By other white dudes, naturally, but anyway.)

I mean I'm all for egalitarianism, but that wasn't what I had in mind.

inquiline,
@inquiline@union.place avatar

@MichaelTBacon The splaining here goes very hard lolsob

(this wasn't even splaining, it was a step or two beyond)

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